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Hi OP. Gonna DM this message also. I just want to make sure you’d see this. If you check my profile of a dude I was friends with and was asking advice about, 2 years ago… he would do stuff like this. A LOT. Super dishonest and a way of controlling the relationship. Whether it’s with you or any other relationship in his life ig.
I can’t speak about your guy because I don’t know him, but the person I know would use it to disarm me.
It’s like a form of magic hahaha. He keeps your attention where he wants it and also ‘mentions’ it but NEVER takes accountability for his own action. And he mentions it so that you can feel bad about bringing it up and expressing very normal and real concerns about how you’re not comfortable with it. “But I already told you/we’ve had this discussion. They don’t mean anything to me” OR “If they were serious (etc etc) then why would I tell you about it? Wouldn’t I try to hide it?”
Those sorts of things. I think the biggest thing is the accountability thing. Taking actual accountability means listening to your concerns, explaining his reasoning/thinking fully (not ito disclosing but ito why he doesn’t make it clear to these people that he’s in a relationship), genuinely working to understand your feelings and what makes you feel that way, and then working WITH YOU on action plans moving forward ito how he can ensure you don’t feel that way.
Also look out for him playing the victim card, saying “yeah I know I’m the bad guy” or some shit like that.
I found it helpful to actually write down things that were said so I could process them separately from the interaction to understand what is truly being said.
Ehh, don’t know if this is helpful but I tried to just relay my experience. Also since that incident I’ve ‘discovered’ that I am at the very least bi, if not gay. For context. So my relationship with that friend had that underlying subtext that even I wasn’t aware of at the time.
Why was he even remaining in contact with someone who has consistently been trying to break up his relationship? Why did he go straight to her the minute you broke up? She's only an ongoing issue because he allows it, probably even encourages it.
You should talk to him about it. The word confront automatically assumes conflict.
Think about the exact message you want to get across, write it down and re-write it after you have had a chance to take a break from it.
Be clear. Don't attack him. Just explain how his behaviours have made you feel. Ask him for a specific behavior change.
If he doesn't make the change he won't ever take your needs into account. That's who he is, and asking someone to show up as who they could be instead of who they are is selfish. If he doesn't take the issue seriously you should reconsider whether you want to be with someone who treats you like that.
Hi OP. Gonna DM this message also. I just want to make sure you’d see this. If you check my profile of a dude I was friends with and was asking advice about, 2 years ago… he would do stuff like this. A LOT. Super dishonest and a way of controlling the relationship. Whether it’s with you or any other relationship in his life ig.
I can’t speak about your guy because I don’t know him, but the person I know would use it to disarm me.
It’s like a form of magic hahaha. He keeps your attention where he wants it and also ‘mentions’ it but NEVER takes accountability for his own action. And he mentions it so that you can feel bad about bringing it up and expressing very normal and real concerns about how you’re not comfortable with it. “But I already told you/we’ve had this discussion. They don’t mean anything to me” OR “If they were serious (etc etc) then why would I tell you about it? Wouldn’t I try to hide it?”
Those sorts of things. I think the biggest thing is the accountability thing. Taking actual accountability means listening to your concerns, explaining his reasoning/thinking fully (not ito disclosing but ito why he doesn’t make it clear to these people that he’s in a relationship), genuinely working to understand your feelings and what makes you feel that way, and then working WITH YOU on action plans moving forward ito how he can ensure you don’t feel that way.
Also look out for him playing the victim card, saying “yeah I know I’m the bad guy” or some shit like that.
I found it helpful to actually write down things that were said so I could process them separately from the interaction to understand what is truly being said.
Ehh, don’t know if this is helpful but I tried to just relay my experience. Also since that incident I’ve ‘discovered’ that I am at the very least bi, if not gay. For context. So my relationship with that friend had that underlying subtext that even I wasn’t aware of at the time.
ISounds like you’re getting played. Aka: scammed.
Get a lawyer, get a paternity test, and let the courts decide the rest.
Why was he even remaining in contact with someone who has consistently been trying to break up his relationship? Why did he go straight to her the minute you broke up? She's only an ongoing issue because he allows it, probably even encourages it.
Also, she said she is saving. What is her contribution bring the total up to?
You should talk to him about it. The word confront automatically assumes conflict.
Think about the exact message you want to get across, write it down and re-write it after you have had a chance to take a break from it.
Be clear. Don't attack him. Just explain how his behaviours have made you feel. Ask him for a specific behavior change.
If he doesn't make the change he won't ever take your needs into account. That's who he is, and asking someone to show up as who they could be instead of who they are is selfish. If he doesn't take the issue seriously you should reconsider whether you want to be with someone who treats you like that.
I’m so sorry I’ve been in your shoes before ): if you need someone to talk to you can Dm me