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Date: October 16, 2022
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Looking at a woman is not objectifying. It's nature. And even if it were…so what? Just keep walking.
Not proposing in a straightforward way is a recipe for failure. If she is as absent-minded as you say, she might not even get it. If you have to spell it out for her, she may feel bad for not getting it.
umm y’all are in a relationship?
i mean, he’s already your friend. and having this degree of intimacy – and yes getting to a point where you’re cuddling, that’s intimate – still is a flavour of friendship if that’s all you want, or it can be a flavour or romantic relationship if that’s what you want.
you should talk to him and figure out what you’re both looking for really, because to be clear if you like that feeling of protection and he likes giving you that feeling, that’s pretty good tbh.
but you both need to be clear on what you’re looking for. if he’s continuing to pine for a crush, and he can’t be fine with you instead, it’s time to pause. if you find that satiety you get with that warm fuzzy feeling of safety disquieting, define clearly what you’re hoping to do before you further bind this tie.
(sorry – like getting poetic with my prose)
You don’t need to know the details of what they’re really doing – you know that this isn’t the way to be loved in a relationship. You move on by just doing it. It’s tough but necessary.
Well if you don’t want to stop being friends you need to have a proper talk about boundaries. You should have done this before it got to the stage of desperation.
You are entitled to a quiet life. You are not these women’s parent. Or their servant. Or their PR agent.
Tell them that you are exhausted by their continuous demands on your time and that you won’t be as accessible in figure and they are both adults and need to start doing things for themselves.
Tell them that you are fed up with organising their social lives and then having them complain all the time.
To be perfectly honest, they are not friends. They are soul suckers using you because they are too lazy to sort their own shit out.
If they do t like being told then you are going to have to start distancing yourself if you want your life back.
If they text you asking to do xyz and you don’t feel like it, say no, sorry I’m really busy at the moment and can’t take on any more things. Hope you understand”.
If they are constantly phoning or texting, stop answering straight away.
Only you can solve this if you really don’t want to lose them as friends.
And if they get cross and accuse you of being a bad friend for saying no, then this literally proves the point that they are NOT your friends, they are just users.
Just want to give you some respect for your maturity. I was nowhere near as mature at your age, or 10 years later for that matter.
Thank you for acknowledging her feelings, your feelings, both ‘readiness’, and how impactful abortion* can be. I respect your approach to care for both of your feelings. I recommend you talk to your doc as a trusted source on birth control, often trusting one source is easier than looking at a poll of random people.
*I’m pro choice with awareness of impact.
P.S. I do offer a sarcastic and dirty answer, but respectfully only offer if you ask for it thru DM.
Info: What rules are taking away the fun for you two? We need more information.
Self-respect is free, my dude. Stop putting up with this bullshit and ditch her. A 40 year-old woman who throws tantrums like a goddamn child isn't worth your time.
He is pulling this same crap with other women. He tells you this then gets on the phone and tells the other one the same thing. He is a walking red flag. Block him. Do not respond to his attempts. How do you avoid it? Just remember as he leaves your house he is walking to someone else’s to do the same thing. Then you won’t fall for it.
What’s the point of dating someone 20 years older than you if they can’t even be responsible enough to not alway break the phone and then when they don’t can’t even buy a new one?
Getting up and leaving seems v weird. That's not ok. I do think you should discuss this for sure.
I know A said poppers but are any other drugs involved?
And you should say goodbye