i haven't even logged in until this morning and forgot I even posted this. I posted this before i went into work and the last time i was logged in there was on 13 comments.
So firstly I think you need to put this into perspective for yourself. You don't actually on-line that far away. It's 24 (at a minimum) hours by plane for us. You might want to look into transport options that are faster because w couple of hours by plane or whatever is basically nothing.
The second thing you need to do is ask where your daughter's behaviour is actually coming from. Our children never did this despite being old enough to remember their home country. I've never heard of children behaving like this over grandparents living in a different country actually. I suspect that your daughters behaviour is actually stemming more from yours than an internal struggle she may be feeling, for her being away from her grandparents should just be normal. I would suggest seeking some therapy both for yourself and your daughter. You absolutely must abstain from expressing your own feelings on the matter to your daughter from now on, that's absolutely not ok, most people would call that emotional abuse.
Contact a lawyer. You can prove no contact and unwanted behaviour like turning up unannounced and buying property near you. This is stalking and you can get a restraining order
OP would be wasting their money on this as it would get laughed out of court. The parents could easily argue their buying a place nearby for a myriad of reasons. Beyond that, a single unannounced visit, while annoying AF, is not grounds for a restraining order. There's also no evidence of a threat of any kind.
I think you make a terrible lawyer
i haven't even logged in until this morning and forgot I even posted this. I posted this before i went into work and the last time i was logged in there was on 13 comments.
You need to provide a TLDR
There's no right or wrong answer here OP.
So firstly I think you need to put this into perspective for yourself. You don't actually on-line that far away. It's 24 (at a minimum) hours by plane for us. You might want to look into transport options that are faster because w couple of hours by plane or whatever is basically nothing.
The second thing you need to do is ask where your daughter's behaviour is actually coming from. Our children never did this despite being old enough to remember their home country. I've never heard of children behaving like this over grandparents living in a different country actually. I suspect that your daughters behaviour is actually stemming more from yours than an internal struggle she may be feeling, for her being away from her grandparents should just be normal. I would suggest seeking some therapy both for yourself and your daughter. You absolutely must abstain from expressing your own feelings on the matter to your daughter from now on, that's absolutely not ok, most people would call that emotional abuse.
If if he had apologized, you're under no obligations. Even if he paid all he owes and more, you're under no obligations.
Contact a lawyer. You can prove no contact and unwanted behaviour like turning up unannounced and buying property near you. This is stalking and you can get a restraining order
OP would be wasting their money on this as it would get laughed out of court. The parents could easily argue their buying a place nearby for a myriad of reasons. Beyond that, a single unannounced visit, while annoying AF, is not grounds for a restraining order. There's also no evidence of a threat of any kind.