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Two years isn't a long time on terms of recovery from infidelity, the average is 5-7 years of active effort by the couple, therapy, tranperancy, supporting eachother etc. He's clearly not putting in that effort, you're not happy and flirting with others. Put on you grown up pants and end your dead relationship. You aren't going to get over it with revenge, you'll just be as shitty as he is and still miserable.
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I was in a very similar situation. I kept telling myself to wait until he got a new job. Then after that it was just “wait until this or that changes” then he will give me attention again. Unfortunately he never changed and he was miserable and non-attentive and non-affectionate to me. I decided I was worth more than waiting for him to change and saw that to him, I wasn't worth changing for. I moved on a met another man who treats me amazingly and have never been happier. My worst days with my current boyfriend were better than the best days with my ex, and leaving him was one of the best decisions I have ever met. Know your worth.
That being said, a few more weeks might be worth waiting to see if things actually do change. But in my opinion, if he really wanted to make you a priority, and that you expressed it was important to you, than he would have already.
The thing is she absolutely does have time.
She may technically have time to do things like shower and eat, but when you have depression, you also need time to fight your own mind for the energy to do those things as well. And all the while, you’re upset and hating yourself for not being able to just get up and do those things, sapping away at any energy you do have. And it’s constant. Even when you don’t need to do anything, your mind is still fighting you, draining away your energy.
Now the solution isn’t just to give up and shoulder the burden yourself. But you need to approach this from a place of concern rather than just criticizing her. See if there isn’t a better way to divvy up the household chores between her and the grandmothers, and encourage her to seek other treatment options since the current one clearly isn’t working.
Thank the universe for blessing you with this escape, and start recording everything he does/says to you. He isolated you, chipped away at your independence and ability to have any power in the relationship, and now that he thinks he has you truly “trapped” he’s entered the next phase of the abuse cycle.
This is his true self and this is what he was planning to do to you the whole time. It will get worse. He is going to amplify the abuse. That is a fact. Your husband is behaving as a TEXTBOOK abuser, OP. Please start doing some research on DARVO, the abuse cycle, and abuse dynamics. Lundy Bancroft’s book “Why Does He Do That” is the Bible for those looking to learn about and understand this stuff.
You need to record all of the verbal events and keep a record of what’s happening. Contact a lawyer ASAP, and don’t be ashamed or embarrassed about this situation. It isn’t your fault. You didn’t do anything wrong and men like him hide what they are and work sneakily — look back, clear your eyes, and see the little things he did over time. I’ll bet money he’s been carefully undermining your independence and self esteem for a long time, and he’s probably done it by switching between “little incidents” you were able to write off and love-bombing where he was so crazy affectionate and “nice” that you started to wonder if the little incidents were even real.
That’s intentional. These morons use the SAME EXACT ABUSER PLAYBOOK. I swear they must have a printed pamphlet circulating out there somewhere…ugh. Just know that you are far, far from alone and his reversal of his abuse and attempts to make YOU feel bad are so ridiculously typical. His pre-nup will be very hot to defend in court if you can record and provide evidence of the verbal abuse. Even if you leave with nothing but yourself and your kid, it’ll be more than worth it. You don’t deserve this and you shouldn’t ever blame yourself for this situation.
She's insecure of a picture?!?!? Man, buy an ever bigger one and frame and mount it professionally.
It's no sign of not being a gentleman to not pine after a person you were only interested in and who rejected you.
Btw I doubt you've ever been courted by a real gentleman as they're rare today and don't usually frequent the same places as normal people. Gentleman is the old English term for a landed proprietor, who lives of the rent peasants pay him for their farms and cottages as well as the income his own farm generates, is of no profession and doesn't do more work than overseeing his servants and looking over his steward's books.