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Date: October 19, 2022
You had 3 kids with him and never noticed? I mean you couldn't tell before? Then he isn't very good at being a narcissist.
File for child support, the court ordered DNA test will hold him accountable!!
And yet here I am…
You sound pretty hesitant and more like you’re feeling pressured. You should propose when you’re comfortable with it. You’ll know when the time is right! And I’d recommend having a heart to heart with GF and tell her you want to wait for the reasons you’ve listed above…. All excellent and valid! You could also find a way to give GF a gentle reminder that aggressively pressuring someone to propose typically has the opposite effect!
To put it simply, it sounds like he was trying to make some sort of common ground for further discussion, and was trying to flirt.
You in essence, by saying he sounded like he had a boring life, called him boring and that’s a coded signal for you are not interested.
He reacted as a wounded animal when hurt, withdrew, and then tried to “protect” himself.
I think the biggest takeaway is to examine where you the disconnect occurred, which I think would be your choice when you insulted him as a passive aggressive way gauge his interest. That is a defense mechanism of your own, and if you can examine that and dig deeper there, it may unravel other, seemingly unrelated threads.
Not if done right. They can suffocate if they have bedding, or if the parent smokes or drinks. Those all increase the risks. You absolutely have to do it right. I suggest reading Emily Oster. She gives a really good summary of all the research in her books.
What do you do in therapy? This sounds like an issue you shouldve brought up. And its relatively easy to change.
Tell your friends it's making you uncomfortable and you don't want to be included in activities or events that she will be attending. Tell them you made it clear to her that you wouldn't be comfortable with her joining the friend group and should have been more honest with the rest of them with how much it bothered you. Be direct and lay out your boundaries for everyone and then take a step back and invest in exploring new hobbies, join some clubs, volunteer and work on meeting some new people with common interests.
You've had 4 good years – reality is that you're functionally single again now and she wants to focus on someone else, so let that be.
Just because she comes back to you in a couple months doesn't mean you have to pick things up again – you can focus on you as well here and even find someone else if you want.
You've said yourself that it all had an air of finality to it.
With this big career change of yours, you can focus on that instead and on your own work/life balance so that you don't over-stress yourself.
Spend time with friends and family, put what's happening under a pin and slap that bad boy on the wall – you can get through this and besides, you've got the most important thing here.
Your cats.
Obviously. Give them some scratches, they'll stick with you and don't need breaks, just more scratches.
Okay this one. This comment for sure.
Break up and move one. There are other guys who are better suited for you.