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NoGutsNoGophers, 33 y.o.
Location: Middle of Nowhere, United States
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Date: November 2, 2022
Exactly! We saw her post history and holy shit. Like I doubt the boyfriend is having sex with her, so then if math is mathing. If she had sex with the guy 6 months ago, and she's in a 2nd trimester……… She preggo and ofc the boyfriend either knows it's the other guy's kid, or she's like playing the keep it under wraps card. She's literally trying to repair things with her boyfriend as she's pregnant with the other guy's kid. – Donny ? (Maria ??)
Why do you need to overthink this so much? Ask her what her favorite genre or artist is and go from there.
Here's the thing.
Your first reletionship was your everything. You're kids running with scissors in your hands. No one really knows what they're doing in their first reletionship. They just do it without any caution.
That reletionship, is your idea of what relationships should be. If you do not have a reletionship that reflects it, then you are not happy to be in it. You have this expectation because of your past experience.
But.. because you put a piece of yourself into that reletionship. Once its over, that part of you dies.
And here, you failed to get that piece of you back and be born again.
You cut out this puzzle piece in your heart and you're trying to shove a new piece into it and hope that it fits.
Does it fit? No… It doesn't work like that.
You're trying to find a substitute instead of focusing on building something new.
You need to fill that void yourself, stop using your past reletionship as a template…You will never have that experience again, gone for good. And because every reletionship is unique, you cannot compare the two, its unfair.
When you have Sara in your mind, you cannot see all the beauty inside of Megan. She is casting a shadow on her and blocking your view.
What does that cause you to do? Look at the flaws in your reletionship and be disappointed. Lacking the motivation to iron out those flaws and make your reletionship better.
Like get used to it dude. This is the reality of relationships. No reletionship is going to be this perfect thing out the gate. You have to put in to work to build a reletionship that is a perfect fit for you.
And until you put this Sara business to rest in your mind. You will never have the full potential of what your reletionship with Megan could be.
Thanks for your cimment.
I had met my husband before moving but that choice to move was mostly mine due to a job offer. We got married after we relocated. but, I've noticed over time that my husband is becoming more and more controlling about me having any contact with males, even in my line of work (which is a male dominated industry), and it's becoming increasingly suffocating.
Yeah, I’m honestly kind of concerned…
Definitely a stupid troll post.
It's wrong he kept the fact that he had a kid from you for 3 months. Huge red flag for me plus OMG what kind of impact would that have on a (normal) kid if they found out? Daddy didn't want to admit to having me?
Second I think if you haven't told your BF about this it's time to do so. You may need to secretly video tape the kid's behavior. This isn't for you, it's for the kid's well being because something is seriously off with him.
Listen she’s telling you and showing you that this is normal for her and she will continue to do it. Now it’s up to you to figure is this is what you want and if this is something you want to deal with. You can’t force her to cut it off she needs to want to do that on her own. But know this will be your life, if you are okay with it then stay if not then leave. It’s been 2 years and she hasn’t and isn’t going to change.