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He does ask questions but it all usually comes after him getting mad and either hanging up on me or refusing to talk to me for hours at a time,, or just being really cold and weird around me for the rest of the day
Concentrate on yourself and make yourself a present.Like go to a spa today.
Sounds like a Leo.
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Stop hanging out with her and move on. Thinks feel so important at your age but you will look back on it all in 10 years time and realise it wasn’t that big at all. The world is your oyster so pick yourself up, brush yourself off and get out there!
I am still on my father's insurance, as the law treats me, because of my disability, still as a child. My father also still gets “Kindergeld” for me. The “Sozialamt” is fine with me being insured like that because it's actually cheaper than a normal, “gesetzliche” insurance I would, of course, otherwise be on. It's also pretty important for me, because with my OCD, I need, if I am in inpatient care, my own room and bathroom, which is normally only available in sections for “Privatpatienten”.
The Tagesklinik I was once in was for psychosomatic issues (I had stress-induced stomach issues) and the people there knew absolutely nothing about OCD. That was when my OCD was still minor (like an hour a day) and I did talk to them about it and they were like “Nah, we're here for psychosomatic issues, like your stomach cramps, you need to see someone else for that”. I never was in a Reha, though, so that might be completely different?
Actually, most of my OCD in inherited/genetic. My mother had very, very bad OCD, which, in her manifested in an eating disorder (she was anorexic for all her life, but not because she thought of herself as fat, but because her OCD only allowed her to eat a certain amount of things to eat each day) and cleaning compulsions. Basically all doctors and therapists told me that my OCD started to manifest based on that old trauma, but if I had never gotten that trauma, the OCD would have come out in a different way. Which I think is true, the compulsions I have these days don't develop based on past trauma anymore, but all it needs is me doing something every day to become a compulsion. Can't say that touching the vacuum cleaner fifty times does much for sleeping better.
Yeah, every little change is such an issue for me. Even a single piece of new furniture is really bad. Had to get a new showerhead and it was utter misery. I think it would be soooo good if I could just find a medication that would help, but despite the dozens of meds I tried, there was not a single SSRI that worked for me. They all had far too horrible side effects. I am now having emergency meds which lessen panic attacks and I take a pill of a medication meant for bipolar disorder to help with sleep, but that's it. None of that is meant to help OCD in any way, so it's literally just for the symptoms, not the disease. It just really sucks.
Thank you so much for engaging with me so much, by the way! That means a lot!
Even if she’s taking a shower, some people don’t know how to properly clean themselves. Do you guys shower together or separately? I do feel self conscious to really clean myself down there if I’m taking a shower with someone else so it’s not foolproof, but do you ever see her actually clean herself or no? So it could be something that’s entirely fixable. Maybe this is mean, but I’d tell her to lick or suck your finger after fingering her. Maybe she’ll get the hint that way.
I'm going to give you the hardest bit of advice you are going to receive but also the most important.
You have to not care.
Your MIL threw a huge tantrum. It sounds like she has a rich history of doing this; people get scared of people who are unpredictable and are willing to engage in extreme behaviours to get what they want. But it's just noise and bluster. She might have been intimidating when your fiance was a kid and needed her. But you don't need her for anything now. So it's just noise, no more significant than a crying baby.
Because you have all reached an age now where she needs you a lot more than you and your partner need her. She has no power and no leverage. That is what happens to parents when their children grow up. It's time she learned that lesson.
What is she going to do? Move out? Great. Refuse to attend the wedding? Won't really make any difference to you. Go non-contact? Well, with a married son and probably grandkids at some point in the future, she would be cutting off her nose to spite her face there. You could easily live! with no contact with her; for your fiance it would be unpleasant but not restrictive of his current family life because he is starting his own family with you. But for her; she would face the prospect of missing out on her son's wedding, missing out on grandkids and being very, very lonely in older age. That's how the power dynamic changes between parents and their kids as everyone gets older.
Any dramatic action she takes harms her far more than it harms you. In fact, short of cutting you from her will (which is about 30 years from being an issue), she has zero leverage. Hopefully she has the intelligence to recognise this, or at least your FIL does.
It's neither here nor there that you sent the recording to him. It's not relevant. What is relevant is that you and your partner have ALL the power in this relationship now. She has none and if she hasn't realised that already, she soon will be.
All you need to do is learn to laugh at it and just carry on with your life. She can say whatever horrible things she wants and you just need to laugh. Because she has no power over you and she can't do shit without really ruining her own life.
Trust me on this. I have similar issues with my mother (not quite as extreme) but nothing she says makes any difference to me and I just don't care. Because I have my own family now. Whatever I do or she does, she isn't going to break the relationshop because it means loneliness for her and missing out on grandkids. So whatever little tantrums she has I just let slide over and laugh about because I really don't need to care anymore
Ok I stopped reading at “she cheated on me a couple of times in the past.”
Based on what I did read, it seems clear that A) she likely will cheat and B) odds are you'll be ok with/forgiving of it
I said I wonder why they think it is. I didn't say it was not.
sure, but you just know there's judgment attached
She should have thought about that before cheating on you repeatedly.
If he wants to hold that boundary then he needs to make himself fully available to accompany you.
No…. your wife is cheating. Just with two people. You should have checked her phone after confronting.
An alibi doesn't mean she had to prepare lunch for these people and then spend valentines day evening with them.
Draw your boundaries and get out of this. Report them all to HR and out mr no tomatoes…
Out mr. No tomatoes and I bet you his wife will call you back with information on your wife.
If I’m fine with this, then why does that seem to offend so many people here.
Because those people are seeing red flags and problems you don't want to see. And that's understandable, a few days ago you felt like you were in a hopeless situation and now it seems like it might maybe kind of work out sort of and you want to hang on tight to that hope and focus on the positive. I get that. But the truth is there's not a lot of positive to grab, here.
Believe it or not no one here wants your marriage to fail. They're giving advice. Last time the advice was to talk to him, which you accepted was the right course of action. This time the exact same people are seeing the results of that talk, and they're saying “this is worse than you seem to realize.” Now everybody must be wrong, because that's not what you wanted to hear.
I genuinely hope you're right and your husband will still prioritize you and the degree to which he does so will be satisfying to you. I really do. But I think what is infinitely more likely is that a few years down the line you're going to post here again acknowledging that they had a point, you were too defensive to listen, the situation has become intolerable, and now you need advice on how to get out of this marriage after having a kid.
He probably watches some of the idiots on YouTube who talk about how natural it is for men to spread their seeds.
DNA test this does not add up