Definitely therapy to process the shock/trauma-I can’t imagine how it felt 😞to walk in on the act.
As far as working on things with him that really is up to you. I would just hope take into account that he blamed his bipolar disorder on the cause for his actions instead of taking accountability for making a choice.
It’s one of two things: either he is lying and using his disorder to justify crappy behavior, which means he is likely to do it again; or he is ruled by his disorder, in which case he is incapable of being the partner you need. To be clear, the latter is not what I think, but that’s just going with his excuse.
It’s a shitty situation you don’t deserve, but you can make the best choice for you and your kids.
Has your wife ever sent you those pics? Wore that lingerie for you as regular as she wss taking pics in it?
If the answer to either if those is no, then who are they for?
Did you end up communicating your skin’s reaction to his beard?
I don't know who that is
Thanks, I hope you have a fabulous day as well!
So a staff member couldn't let you in? That's very weird.
Definitely therapy to process the shock/trauma-I can’t imagine how it felt 😞to walk in on the act.
As far as working on things with him that really is up to you. I would just hope take into account that he blamed his bipolar disorder on the cause for his actions instead of taking accountability for making a choice.
It’s one of two things: either he is lying and using his disorder to justify crappy behavior, which means he is likely to do it again; or he is ruled by his disorder, in which case he is incapable of being the partner you need. To be clear, the latter is not what I think, but that’s just going with his excuse.
It’s a shitty situation you don’t deserve, but you can make the best choice for you and your kids.
Can you offer some context on what he put you through?
Dont play these stupid games. You will not get an outcome you want