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Date: March 23, 2023
Hey friend. Don’t be so naked on yourself. You did not waste three years. You’ve lived for X amount of years under a misconception of your self worth but you also learned a lot during that time that has led you to be able to you de-program yourself from a toxic script in only a few hours. The you from three years ago wasn’t ready. Be kind to her. The you today is absolutely ready.
Take all that pent up frustration about “time wasted” and apply it forward so that you don’t waste one second of this new, stronger you, under these shitty conditions. Sonic the hedgehog on out of there and into your future!
You are aware that you may end up burning bridges with both of them with that approach?
Well I could care less what they call me… none of them pay my bills.
I had a friend like this. She would randomly call me to dump whatever was bothering her in that moment and she made it seem like her world was crumbling (over something like her husband left the toilet seat up but she never told him about it) or would be dismissive of my problems when I tried confiding in her or would try and one up the problems. When I tried to give her local sound advice on what to do (ie did you tell your husband leaving the seat up bothers you) she would flip out and think the world is out to get her and she has bad luck. Ultimately it got to the point where the only times she would talk to me was to dump her problems onto me or make the conversation about her. I hit a breaking point of throwing her irrational logic of yes the world is out to get you at her and hasn’t spoken to me since. Childish of me, maybe but I had already checked out of the friendship (she was fun, nice in person, but even when we did hang out it was woes me and on her terms). Your friend sounds insecure and needs to process her emotions better. This is a one sided friendship unfortunately. You may want to maybe stop being accessible to her and lay a boundary of how her dumping onto you is starting to wear on you (may be tricky since she may perceive this in the wrong way and go off the rails and ultimately end the friendship from her end) or maybe recommend she needs a new therapist. Maybe calling her out in a nice way “hey I’ve noticed you’ve been down lately and it’s affecting me, could we change the topic to something happy” something like that but without a very hot blow to her. But this is not a healthy friendship and she should not be using you to dump ALL her problems on. If you express how this is bothering you in whichever way you choose and she still continues to do it, she does not value the friendship you two have.
This isn’t a 10 year marriage. They’re not even engaged to be married. There’s a huge difference between marriage and dating. If you overlook all the bad things bc you write them off as small that’s gonna come back to bite you in the ass. Y’all always tell women they should’ve paid attention to red flags then when they do they’re overreacting. There’s no winning with people like you. Soooo there’s nothing else for me to say here. I feel bad for whoever you treat like shit then just say “it’s a small thing don’t be mad!” Shitty asf tbh
I can’t get past that she accepted a drink from a stranger. It could have been spiked and this story would read very different. And more she wants to meet up with him? FFS
Big no!