I was thinking the same. Couldn’t/didn’t go with her and help while she’s on crutches and got insecure because someone stepped up and above him. Also doesn’t like that gf is attractive lol
yeah I was no contact for about a week until today.. and everyday since 2 weeks ago seems like a endless limbo where i’m fucking depressed, cant focus on work, want to leave the city, taking drugs to numb myself, etc.
I cant even look at other girls. everything EVERYTHING makes me depressed and sad because it always comes back to thinking about her.
It may be result of her trauma, but fact remains. She looks forward different sex than you can offer her. On some deranged emotional level she may feel unsatisfied in your considerate sexual relation.
Her open comment however is unacceptable. Please cancel your wedding. Do not marry her, until this problem is resolved, keep in mind she can pretend like it is resolved so it's very tricky. I guess you can tell her there is no point pretending, as if she deceives you, it will just lead to a quick divorce)
This requires honest conversation she will not have with unless she has no other choice (to amend your relationship). Counselling perhaps is in order?
Thank you for this response. I went to my friend and told her and she was very supportive.
No you’re there to give hi face whilst he waits for her….you also give her an excuse to tell her husband that it’s ok too
That’s how I took it as it could’ve been subconsciously.
Okay. Block him on everything, leave shared friend groups.
Now go watch a movie and find a hobby or go to the gym every day. Simple as that.
I was thinking the same. Couldn’t/didn’t go with her and help while she’s on crutches and got insecure because someone stepped up and above him. Also doesn’t like that gf is attractive lol
This post isn't about my child. My child is in good care, healthy and doing very well.
I love my child with all my heart and that will never change.
I understand the concern.
yeah I was no contact for about a week until today.. and everyday since 2 weeks ago seems like a endless limbo where i’m fucking depressed, cant focus on work, want to leave the city, taking drugs to numb myself, etc.
I cant even look at other girls. everything EVERYTHING makes me depressed and sad because it always comes back to thinking about her.
I work full time and earn 65k per year
It may be result of her trauma, but fact remains. She looks forward different sex than you can offer her. On some deranged emotional level she may feel unsatisfied in your considerate sexual relation.
Her open comment however is unacceptable. Please cancel your wedding. Do not marry her, until this problem is resolved, keep in mind she can pretend like it is resolved so it's very tricky. I guess you can tell her there is no point pretending, as if she deceives you, it will just lead to a quick divorce)
This requires honest conversation she will not have with unless she has no other choice (to amend your relationship). Counselling perhaps is in order?
Fair enough. Good point. I'd like to know how they're friends in this specific situation though.