You are a momma's boy through and through and your wife's finally realised that it will never change and you will continually disrespect her by allowing disrespect towards her.
My SOs family did the same. He also did it get it at first. I tried to explain how it happens, mostly covert, always microaggressions and now way to “prove it”. I told my partner I won't accept being disrespected and dealing with it by “dealing with it”. I will leave for my own sanity and I did. When I left his family's vicinity he saw what they tried to do, made my pregnancy about his infertile sister, etc. Now he has no contact with them. He listened to me and responsed to protect me. You didn't even listen. All you do is complain like a child.
And she CARRIED those children and made them with her own body and now she is supposed to accept the people who treated her like crap to be around her kids?
I have an issue with people who have to tell you how loyal/honest/kind they are. Loyal/honest/kind people don’t need to tell you what they are, you’ll see it
Ever notice that the people that always tell you how much they hate drama, are just surrounded by drama? Yeah… :/
Was he trying to do it as a “I want you to see how beautiful you are” kinda thing or is he genuinely being a dickhead?! Because if it’s the latter, you should definitely dump him
Because they've accepted it, either because 'that's who they are' or as a casualty of their mental health issues. They expect you to pick up the slack. Whether they admit it or not. 'If you want the place clean so desperately, you do it!'
In my experience, honestly on both sides of this scenario (as much as I hate to admit it)…. it doesn't get better unless huge changes are made.
Right? She’d be mad at SIL no matter what she did.
You are a momma's boy through and through and your wife's finally realised that it will never change and you will continually disrespect her by allowing disrespect towards her.
My SOs family did the same. He also did it get it at first. I tried to explain how it happens, mostly covert, always microaggressions and now way to “prove it”. I told my partner I won't accept being disrespected and dealing with it by “dealing with it”. I will leave for my own sanity and I did. When I left his family's vicinity he saw what they tried to do, made my pregnancy about his infertile sister, etc. Now he has no contact with them. He listened to me and responsed to protect me. You didn't even listen. All you do is complain like a child.
And she CARRIED those children and made them with her own body and now she is supposed to accept the people who treated her like crap to be around her kids?
Expect to be divorced soon.
I have an issue with people who have to tell you how loyal/honest/kind they are. Loyal/honest/kind people don’t need to tell you what they are, you’ll see it
Ever notice that the people that always tell you how much they hate drama, are just surrounded by drama? Yeah… :/
Was he trying to do it as a “I want you to see how beautiful you are” kinda thing or is he genuinely being a dickhead?! Because if it’s the latter, you should definitely dump him
Because they've accepted it, either because 'that's who they are' or as a casualty of their mental health issues. They expect you to pick up the slack. Whether they admit it or not. 'If you want the place clean so desperately, you do it!'
In my experience, honestly on both sides of this scenario (as much as I hate to admit it)…. it doesn't get better unless huge changes are made.
UpdateMe!
Your actions were wildly inappropriate. You need to accept that you're in the wrong and apologise.