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So she pestered you into an open marriage that you clearly didn't want. She f'ed around and found out, it was never gonna end well and of course you were gonna check out. If you want to fix it then you will have to close it and go to therapy, but I honestly don't think it's worth it. The trust will never be there
So this is just an echo chamber? You only want people to encourage and support your decision to break up your family? Too bad.
Did you ever consider that your child is so “resilient” because he had the security of family and home? I don’t know what kind of church you had but I don’t hear anything about actual faith so I’m going to assume Mormon…but you only have one kid so it’s very hot to say. Second guess would be JW. In any event, no Abrahamic religion would tell you to go find your happiness instead of holiness. I know my unwanted opinion will be unpopular in our “my happiness must come first!” world but I’m just not buying your martyr story.
Your happiness comes last – that’s being a husband and a father. You don’t get to take a woman’s love and youth and fertility and child she carried in her body for you and then decide you are now also entitled to your own selfish happiness. You shut up and lie in the bed you made and be grateful for it. She gave up her life to you so now you keep your mouth and reciprocate. Stop being a child and pretending that love isn’t something you can control. Only you control your behavior and your mind.
Why don’t you sleep in the same room? Who are you comparing your wife to? What better wife do you think you’re entitled to? What have you done other than white-knuckle your way through this and keep your dirty little secrets to yourself? Why do you think you can speak for your wife and decide what is best for her? Why do you think this is all your decision and all about you?
Stop talking about your wife and go talk to her. Stop being a mid life crisis cliché.
Your boyfriend expressed a fair concern that I agree with even though focusing on that at 2 months is pretty early. It’s sort of weird to have your exs jewelry when you’re with someone else regardless in the general sense. It seems like maybe you still want to be with your ex over as you put it your “new boyfriend”. Do you see yourself having a future with him?
So she pestered you into an open marriage that you clearly didn't want. She f'ed around and found out, it was never gonna end well and of course you were gonna check out. If you want to fix it then you will have to close it and go to therapy, but I honestly don't think it's worth it. The trust will never be there
So this is just an echo chamber? You only want people to encourage and support your decision to break up your family? Too bad.
Did you ever consider that your child is so “resilient” because he had the security of family and home? I don’t know what kind of church you had but I don’t hear anything about actual faith so I’m going to assume Mormon…but you only have one kid so it’s very hot to say. Second guess would be JW. In any event, no Abrahamic religion would tell you to go find your happiness instead of holiness. I know my unwanted opinion will be unpopular in our “my happiness must come first!” world but I’m just not buying your martyr story.
Your happiness comes last – that’s being a husband and a father. You don’t get to take a woman’s love and youth and fertility and child she carried in her body for you and then decide you are now also entitled to your own selfish happiness. You shut up and lie in the bed you made and be grateful for it. She gave up her life to you so now you keep your mouth and reciprocate. Stop being a child and pretending that love isn’t something you can control. Only you control your behavior and your mind.
Why don’t you sleep in the same room? Who are you comparing your wife to? What better wife do you think you’re entitled to? What have you done other than white-knuckle your way through this and keep your dirty little secrets to yourself? Why do you think you can speak for your wife and decide what is best for her? Why do you think this is all your decision and all about you?
Stop talking about your wife and go talk to her. Stop being a mid life crisis cliché.
Also, OP was a F, 4 days ago at AITA thread.
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Your boyfriend expressed a fair concern that I agree with even though focusing on that at 2 months is pretty early. It’s sort of weird to have your exs jewelry when you’re with someone else regardless in the general sense. It seems like maybe you still want to be with your ex over as you put it your “new boyfriend”. Do you see yourself having a future with him?