I can understand and empathize with the fear, but just as OP's GF deserves to be treated kindly, with honesty, and respect, so does OP. Having a fear of rejection isn't a free pass to deceive a romantic partner and deny them the chance to decide what they are or are not comfortable with prior to reaching any level of intimacy (emotional or physical).
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People say a lot of things about parenting and kids before they know the reality “if I were a parent I’d never let me kids do…” he doesn’t know anything at this point and probably hasn’t thought much about it yet. I wouldn’t worry about it. It’s more about aligning parenting philosophies as you start getting closer to that point.
So you did masturbate thinking about having sex with people you liked?
Yes celebrities are different because you don’t see them in real life. The girl he worked with he did see in real life and he liked her and thought about fucking her.
Former Loan Officer here. Do not by New. By a certified used Toyota or Honda. Always get Gap insurance, don’t worry about warranties unless it’s free oil changes and things like that.
Demand free TT&L, don’t pay for shipping or storage fees from the dealer.
Besides that, YOU don’t “ask” him if you can. You tell him you are going to and you are only informing him of your decision. That’s it.
I think maybe it's worth you taking some time to learn how to love your body the way it is. Fatphobia has been drilled into all of us by media and it is a long journey to unlearn that fear.
Find what clothes flatter your new figure and make you feel confident. Wearing baggy clothes all the time might not be what suits you, and might just be reminding both of you that you're unhappy with your body (even unconciously)
Tell him to get over it or get out.
20 is plenty
I can understand and empathize with the fear, but just as OP's GF deserves to be treated kindly, with honesty, and respect, so does OP. Having a fear of rejection isn't a free pass to deceive a romantic partner and deny them the chance to decide what they are or are not comfortable with prior to reaching any level of intimacy (emotional or physical).
it could be the case that most of his more relevant experiences include her and he has no other references. he doesnt have much friends
Haha now you pay.
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Spot on.
People say a lot of things about parenting and kids before they know the reality “if I were a parent I’d never let me kids do…” he doesn’t know anything at this point and probably hasn’t thought much about it yet. I wouldn’t worry about it. It’s more about aligning parenting philosophies as you start getting closer to that point.
So you did masturbate thinking about having sex with people you liked?
Yes celebrities are different because you don’t see them in real life. The girl he worked with he did see in real life and he liked her and thought about fucking her.
Former Loan Officer here. Do not by New. By a certified used Toyota or Honda. Always get Gap insurance, don’t worry about warranties unless it’s free oil changes and things like that.
Demand free TT&L, don’t pay for shipping or storage fees from the dealer.
Besides that, YOU don’t “ask” him if you can. You tell him you are going to and you are only informing him of your decision. That’s it.
I think maybe it's worth you taking some time to learn how to love your body the way it is. Fatphobia has been drilled into all of us by media and it is a long journey to unlearn that fear.
Find what clothes flatter your new figure and make you feel confident. Wearing baggy clothes all the time might not be what suits you, and might just be reminding both of you that you're unhappy with your body (even unconciously)
Dude, her doing that without even discussing it with you first IS MEANT TO MAKE YOU FEEL AWFUL!