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Peach, 19 y.o.
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Date: October 30, 2022
Your boyfriend will “let” him cover?? You don’t get a say in that??
I don’t kind of get where your bf is coming from. You don’t really feel like you can relax when you have overnight guests. However, it’s just once a month, then bf should suck it. He should suck it up it were once a week. Any more than that and I’d be uncomfortable too.
But if someone asks you to get a plate and a fork then you should do so, not throw a hissy fit.
He may not have the personal insight to know the answer (which is why individual therapy might be helpful). Many people revert to their childhood selves around family. They do this both because that is the person their family expect them to be and who they feel comfortable being in that particular dynamic. If his father manipulated him or provided conditional love, he may also feel as if standing up to him on your behalf will result in a loss of that love and potential exile from the family. Your husband likely fears the rejection of his family of origin more than being rejected by you, especially if your love for him is more solid and unconditional.
You husband needs to understand himself better and why he can't put boundaries in place with his father, but he'll likely resist doing so. That resistance won't be fueled by a lack of love or regard for you or his children, but by unconscious fears of losing his parents and their connection to him.
You might want to start any discussion of this with asking him if his parents see him as the person he is now or if they still see him as the kid they raised. My husband's family (brothers and sisters as well as parents) continue to see him as the worst characteristics of his childhood and teenage years. They are certain that they “know” him well based on not having spent hardly any time with him since around age 20. He's 60 years old! They don't know anyting about who he really is and they are frustrated and upset when he doesn't let them cram him into a box they believe he belongs in. Your husband may not be as good as mine as resisting being the person he used to be to make his family comfortable around him.
To be fair I grew up in a pro-farting kind of household, and I see no shame in bodily functions, but even I draw the line when someone lets a huge one rip in the bed. Dutch ovens are gross. So are big kitchen farts or under blanket tv farts. There's a time and place, people!! She knows it is coming and could detonate elsewhere. It's a fair ask for her to at least try to minimize the damage. While being comfortable around a significant other is great, I don't think your disgust is fully unwarranted.
Tell her you love how comfortable she is with her body & around you, you find it admirable that she is confident, but could she work on the bed farting? With the understanding that the occasional one is going to rip.
Yeah.. I'd just tell her to find some other chump to buy her that $600 perfume and dump her ass.
Cuddles and kisses, a few hugs in there too.
I let things be where she’s comfortable, with nary a sigh when what seemed to be going two or three steps further suddenly stops. I’ve voiced pretty clearly that I understand that it’s going to take time to get back to a normal sex life, and that I rather her stop us if she’s uncomfortable than to go along with something she doesn’t want to do.
On this two week cycle with a 24 hour heads up the vast majority of the time something or other comes up before we even hop into bed, and we’ve yet to have more than some light touching in the roughly 12 months that we’ve been trying this.