Thank you, really appreciate all your help, as you may know/expect it is just so very hot to end things with someone who really loves you and has been with you for so long, but I do hear what you're saying, thank you
You definitely made me think! I’m also sorry that you’re speaking from experience. Honestly if it weren’t for Reddit I wouldn’t have realized how common this is to feel upset by something that might seem so insignificant (mainly to the person doing it tbh).
Keep on spreading your kind and thoughtful words. ? I feel it’s super helpful to those in the thick of it!
You tell him what you did, and own up to the fact that you were angry and jealous of an 11 year old disabled girl who lost her mother.
Own up to your behavior. Acknowledge how awful you were then, and evaluate yourself now.. because I don’t hear you feeling awful what you did- you are being dismissive and defensive.
He was stupid in lying. I don’t know if he knew what was happening at the party. Don’t break up with him. A stripper is not an affair. He clearly was embarrassed about the event. If you are having a child together this is more important. People make mistakes.
As long you have a solid relationship, based on trust and respect then I honestly think influencer = cheater is a bit of a paranoid stretch of the imagination in this case.
I would strongly reconsider a relationship where the other person wanted to be fully in control of any aspect of your child's lives. I have several theories here and none of them are particularly good.
I am rude by using honesty. Do you really want to have children with him while you haven't even tested him how he is around creatures that need his totally caress, his totally attention and they are weak and totally dependent on him??? Do you both had a pet first to see how he is??? If he can't even take care of a dog or cat how is he going to take care of a baby???
Thank you for taking the time and writing that down really
Make a decision, indecisiveness will end up sucking more
Thank you, really appreciate all your help, as you may know/expect it is just so very hot to end things with someone who really loves you and has been with you for so long, but I do hear what you're saying, thank you
You definitely made me think! I’m also sorry that you’re speaking from experience. Honestly if it weren’t for Reddit I wouldn’t have realized how common this is to feel upset by something that might seem so insignificant (mainly to the person doing it tbh).
Keep on spreading your kind and thoughtful words. ? I feel it’s super helpful to those in the thick of it!
You tell him what you did, and own up to the fact that you were angry and jealous of an 11 year old disabled girl who lost her mother.
Own up to your behavior. Acknowledge how awful you were then, and evaluate yourself now.. because I don’t hear you feeling awful what you did- you are being dismissive and defensive.
He was stupid in lying. I don’t know if he knew what was happening at the party. Don’t break up with him. A stripper is not an affair. He clearly was embarrassed about the event. If you are having a child together this is more important. People make mistakes.
As long you have a solid relationship, based on trust and respect then I honestly think influencer = cheater is a bit of a paranoid stretch of the imagination in this case.
Jesus Christ it’s not fake. None of it is! I would not be wasting my time like this at all.
I would strongly reconsider a relationship where the other person wanted to be fully in control of any aspect of your child's lives. I have several theories here and none of them are particularly good.
I am rude by using honesty. Do you really want to have children with him while you haven't even tested him how he is around creatures that need his totally caress, his totally attention and they are weak and totally dependent on him??? Do you both had a pet first to see how he is??? If he can't even take care of a dog or cat how is he going to take care of a baby???