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Princess Consuela Banana Hammock, 99 y.o.
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Date: December 1, 2022
Err yeah, so are you
He's a very curious person outside of me. He has a PhD and in process of probably studying more..his literal day job is to research and requires curiousity..
In terms of emotionally closed off..if there's anyone , it's me. But I'm working in therapy with 2 therapists to be better. Emotionally maturity is very important to me and through actions he definitely makes me feel loved..and through sex..I've never had such loving sex all my life.
But words are more important to me than actions..I have trauma history and words mean the world to me.
Thanks for suggesting the way to bring it up. I'm going to try that in our next check in.
So its 2-3 days. So there are some explanations.
Something might have happened. Accident. Family issue. He might have lost his phone. etc. He might be very nervous now and has problems coping with it himself. He might have heard somewhere that you should take back attention from women once in a while so they want you more (which might actually be true in some situations but not in this one).
He might have issues where is only is into chasing girls and once he gets them he looses interest.
He could have psycholoical issues. Some biploar people who reach a certain goal can get really “crazy” when it happens. I know a guy who was a little wierd his whole life but never like “crazy” and he got elected for a minor local political position, which he applied for as a joke. He went dipshit crazy after the election, believing that snipers are after him and that people want to silence him. He really went movie mental within a day. This is not very likely to have happened though.
There can be many reasons, some understandable and reasonable, some wierd, some meaning he's is not a good person.
For now I would advice you to chill and wait for 2-4 more days. If he gets back at you, he will have some explaining to do. Do you have mutual friends, aquaintances? You might ask some of them if they know about his whereabouts.
I’m betting, you’re absolutely exaggerating, the babies probably sleeping closer to four hours which isn’t all that abnormal for a 10 month old. I’m thinking you should probably just let your wife raise her baby the way she wants, your baby will get on its own schedule without any sleep training. Sleep training can be extremely damaging, leaving infants, crying for hours, so they learn not to cry for their parents… That’s what you’re asking your wife to do…
Sometimes love is not enough.
You love him, but he likes you. Maybe he loves you too but with his unwillingness to say it, you're lacking something you need and it's wasting your time. It's that simple. If he isn't comfortable saying I love you, then he needs to be with someone who is fine with him not saying it, and that person is not you. Trust me, there are women out there who would 200% fine with this and give it no thought. However, it sounds like it's eating you alive.
Him getting 'angry' at your emotional needs is a huge red flag. In a way, while you might not think so, it's a little abusive because you're on the internet asking strangers what to do when most ( I use the term most loosely here) people would not understand the point of a such a long standing relationship without saying I love you daily. To most people, it would mean that person is settling. It's a common statement in relationships usually. On your way out the door to work? I love you. Going to bed at night? I love you goodnight. Birthday gift? It's perfect. Thank you so much, I love you. It's common and you've expressed that you NEED this from him and he clearly does not care. So move on.
Five years deep is a long time for you to be allowing someone to belittle your needs and to be feeling unloved yourself. You are young. 25 is so young. So don't waste anymore of YOUR time. His time isn't being wasted because he's getting what he wants. He comes back because he is fine with the arrangement while you're emotionally suffering. End this relationship. Yes, it will be naked as heartbreak can be very devastating but I promise you that you will meet someone who can't stop saying they love you and you will look back and wonder why you ever allowed someone to waste your time this way. Hell, you might even find someone who annoys you with affection someday. I want that for you, but you need to want that for yourself enough to take the hit of a breakup, heal and put yourself back out there.
Move on. End this. When he comes back, just say you're flattered that he is interested in being with you but you are not the person for him because what he wants out of a relationship is not something you can give him. That's the nice was to do it if you wanted to be cordial and non-accusatory. If he begs, then be honest and tell him flat out, you need and want to be with someone who cares about your emotional needs all the time, not just when you're broken up and he wants you back. And please….please do not let him love bomb you and say it all the time for a few months to get you back and then we are back here and square one. He's had five years to work on this and nothing has come of it.
Time for a change. Do it now while you have the courage as sometimes I find the support of strangers online can be powerful but to answer your question, what should you do?
End the relationship.
That's pretty freakish behaviour on his part, but you should be much more worried about the other red flags here. Why would anybody think they have a right to tell you what to wear and why would you let anyone tell you what to wear? I think you've got the wrong bloke.