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A lot of people here will make assumptions about your behavior to paint you as a monster and your wife as a woman in distress doing what she needed to.
Fact is you were having some trouble with your mental health. Not being attentive to your wife isn’t an excuse for her to cheat.
The way I read this, it’s a good thing that events unfolded the way they did. You found out your wife isn’t supportive and will drop you at the first sign of sickness. You’re better off without her.
First, you need to get your life in order. Don’t let your anger and feelings of betrayal overwhelm your ability to improve your situation. You’re a grown man who has experienced a lot of life. Everything that has been thrown at you, you can handle. Figure out how to navigate the area on your own. Look for people who will help you understand contracts, renting, etc. in the US, maybe a local library could help. Look for similar resources near you. Get your living, working and mental health situation under control.
Then focus on raising your kids. They need you. They need you to have a decent relationship with your (soon to be ex, hopefully) wife. When you feel that anger boiling up and paralyzing you, think of how much your kids need you to figure it out.
When you’re around your wife, take solace in the fact that you aren’t attached to her anymore. If she fucks 100 guys, it doesn’t matter because you’re done with her. Think about how much your kids love her and how well she treats your kids. Let the past be the past and look forward to all the future has to offer.
Wait… so you weren’t even close enough to these people that you considered yourself “dating” them, they’re just flings… but your bf is so bothered by that you cut them out of your life without question?? Girl. The red flags. How weird and controlling.
She clearly has a lot of issues and has not dealt with them. What is worse she is projecting her insecurities onto you. This is emotional abuse and it has turned into physical abuse. She takes no responsibility for her actions and blames you. Don't make excuses for her. She is a grown-ass woman and needs to go to therapy.
Is she controlling about other things? Does she limit who you can spend time with or minimise your interactions with friends and family?
You cannot control what she does, only what you do. Don't put you and your daughter at risk. Both you and your partner needs to get therapy separately and possibly as a couple. It is also good idea to get your daughter
You have two options. Try out something new, and she will appreciate you for it. Orrrrrr break up with her and prove to her what she's already thinking. You just want sex.
Seemingly perfect is such a red flag for me now. These charming types who are super romantic from the get go and promise you the world until youre emotionally hooked. And for me, this was the problem with my failed relationships. It was all about having each others emotional needs met instead of building a supportive partnership.
It sounds like youve learnt a lot – “i feel like no one is worthy of trust”. This is a bittersweet thing. It means you value trust greatly. As you should. Maybe youve lost trust of yourself? Use this single time to build that back up so when you are ready to date you dont fall back in to the same patterns of meeting these types of men.
Ive always felt we are bound to repeat our cycles until we actively try a different approach and stick to it. Discover yourself again and find new ways to bring joy back in to your life. It does take time but youll be so proud of yourself when you see the little glimmers of your new self and thats the self thats going to meet the right person. Good luck. Be kind, compassionate and dont give up on yourself. Its okay to fall down but picking yourself back up shows true strength. You never deserved this treatment. What these idiots did says everything about their character.
She's guilt tripping you to take advantage of her. No way she's so stupid she didn't know getting hurt was a a possibility, and as a grown adult, she's responsible for taking her own self to get medical attention (or having someone else take her) when she needs it.
A lot of people here will make assumptions about your behavior to paint you as a monster and your wife as a woman in distress doing what she needed to.
Fact is you were having some trouble with your mental health. Not being attentive to your wife isn’t an excuse for her to cheat.
The way I read this, it’s a good thing that events unfolded the way they did. You found out your wife isn’t supportive and will drop you at the first sign of sickness. You’re better off without her.
First, you need to get your life in order. Don’t let your anger and feelings of betrayal overwhelm your ability to improve your situation. You’re a grown man who has experienced a lot of life. Everything that has been thrown at you, you can handle. Figure out how to navigate the area on your own. Look for people who will help you understand contracts, renting, etc. in the US, maybe a local library could help. Look for similar resources near you. Get your living, working and mental health situation under control.
Then focus on raising your kids. They need you. They need you to have a decent relationship with your (soon to be ex, hopefully) wife. When you feel that anger boiling up and paralyzing you, think of how much your kids need you to figure it out.
When you’re around your wife, take solace in the fact that you aren’t attached to her anymore. If she fucks 100 guys, it doesn’t matter because you’re done with her. Think about how much your kids love her and how well she treats your kids. Let the past be the past and look forward to all the future has to offer.
Good luck man.
Lately there have been times when I can’t take it anymore and I want to leave the relationship, yet he will not let me go.
It’s confusing to have someone not want to have a serious relationship, yet I cannot try to distance myself because they will not let me go.
What does this even mean? You want his permission to leave? Is he your boyfriend or your father?
Wait… so you weren’t even close enough to these people that you considered yourself “dating” them, they’re just flings… but your bf is so bothered by that you cut them out of your life without question?? Girl. The red flags. How weird and controlling.
“Stfu” don't boo me because I'm right
Change your number; Contact the police and get a restraining order; Move near family and friends; If he know your address and work change too;
Block him on every social media
With the restraining order maybe you can have some time to prepare to move job, address and city.
She clearly has a lot of issues and has not dealt with them. What is worse she is projecting her insecurities onto you. This is emotional abuse and it has turned into physical abuse. She takes no responsibility for her actions and blames you. Don't make excuses for her. She is a grown-ass woman and needs to go to therapy.
Is she controlling about other things? Does she limit who you can spend time with or minimise your interactions with friends and family?
You cannot control what she does, only what you do. Don't put you and your daughter at risk. Both you and your partner needs to get therapy separately and possibly as a couple. It is also good idea to get your daughter
You have two options. Try out something new, and she will appreciate you for it. Orrrrrr break up with her and prove to her what she's already thinking. You just want sex.
Seemingly perfect is such a red flag for me now. These charming types who are super romantic from the get go and promise you the world until youre emotionally hooked. And for me, this was the problem with my failed relationships. It was all about having each others emotional needs met instead of building a supportive partnership.
It sounds like youve learnt a lot – “i feel like no one is worthy of trust”. This is a bittersweet thing. It means you value trust greatly. As you should. Maybe youve lost trust of yourself? Use this single time to build that back up so when you are ready to date you dont fall back in to the same patterns of meeting these types of men.
Ive always felt we are bound to repeat our cycles until we actively try a different approach and stick to it. Discover yourself again and find new ways to bring joy back in to your life. It does take time but youll be so proud of yourself when you see the little glimmers of your new self and thats the self thats going to meet the right person. Good luck. Be kind, compassionate and dont give up on yourself. Its okay to fall down but picking yourself back up shows true strength. You never deserved this treatment. What these idiots did says everything about their character.
She's guilt tripping you to take advantage of her. No way she's so stupid she didn't know getting hurt was a a possibility, and as a grown adult, she's responsible for taking her own self to get medical attention (or having someone else take her) when she needs it.
She's using this to use you, friend.
then you are also racist