Hate to say but it seems like we was itching for that green light. If my wife gave me the ok for something like that, I would have a tough time finding a possible match and even then would probably back out at the last moment. The only way I say my wife and I having sex with other people is if one of us is in the middle. Even then, the person selected and patience in making sure it is the right move would always be present. But that’s just how I feel. Seems like you have him a taste of open relationship life but don’t respect the fact that your actual decision you landed on is that it makes you very uncomfortable.
Absolutely not. There is a huge difference between her boyfriend allowing her autonomy to make her choice and your boyfriend asking you to spend time as a woman with a man who isn't safe to be around. This lady has her boyfriend to protect her who wasn't raped as a child by this person. Her boyfriend isn't vulnerable to attack and you are unless you know a defensive martial art or something.
Both of my parents are in their 50s. He's older than my mom by 7 years. This guy shares the same age with some of my aunties…
I see…got it. Thank you for your reply, it calms my anxiety about it, haha
Hate to say but it seems like we was itching for that green light. If my wife gave me the ok for something like that, I would have a tough time finding a possible match and even then would probably back out at the last moment. The only way I say my wife and I having sex with other people is if one of us is in the middle. Even then, the person selected and patience in making sure it is the right move would always be present. But that’s just how I feel. Seems like you have him a taste of open relationship life but don’t respect the fact that your actual decision you landed on is that it makes you very uncomfortable.
When you can actually see a future with her long term, not just 'move in so we can see each other more'.
Absolutely not. There is a huge difference between her boyfriend allowing her autonomy to make her choice and your boyfriend asking you to spend time as a woman with a man who isn't safe to be around. This lady has her boyfriend to protect her who wasn't raped as a child by this person. Her boyfriend isn't vulnerable to attack and you are unless you know a defensive martial art or something.