I was in a 4 year relationship with someone who was best friends with their ex, and they likewise shared a dog.
Never ever again.
I knew 3 months in that I'd be uncomfortable but I ignored my gut and tried to be okay with it. Guess what? There were 3 of us in the relationship and it was a complete nightmare. Good on your new gf for knowing what will and will not work for her.
Your fear of being needy becomes irrelevant when you realize that she's already not interested.
The reason I encourage you to just lay it all out, is because I think you need firm confirmation of the situation. “Hey, I'm into you. Would you like to go out on a date sometime?” It's not needy to ask someone out on a date.
If she says no or essentially any other response but an absolute “yes,” then continuing to pursue her would be needy.
Drop her now before it hurts later on in the future. You’ll be ok and you’ll recover from it in time
But someone who was acquitted but guilty would also never mention it.
I was in a 4 year relationship with someone who was best friends with their ex, and they likewise shared a dog.
Never ever again.
I knew 3 months in that I'd be uncomfortable but I ignored my gut and tried to be okay with it. Guess what? There were 3 of us in the relationship and it was a complete nightmare. Good on your new gf for knowing what will and will not work for her.
Shes trying to get out of an abusive relationship. These do not apply.
It could be just a friend, or a FWB. You should just ask him.
Next someone will tell us Ms Cleo is still out there taking calls dang
Your fear of being needy becomes irrelevant when you realize that she's already not interested.
The reason I encourage you to just lay it all out, is because I think you need firm confirmation of the situation. “Hey, I'm into you. Would you like to go out on a date sometime?” It's not needy to ask someone out on a date.
If she says no or essentially any other response but an absolute “yes,” then continuing to pursue her would be needy.
So it’s what I first asked lol. You had agreed to hang out but didn’t have legit, set plans. It sounds like there’s no reason to be mad honestly