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This sounds like an unwise way to go. Too confusing. When a couple breaks up, they need distance, not a shared home and dog.
One of you should move out – get a sublettor for the duration. You and your ex can keep in loose touch with an occasional text but no monitoring who sleeps where. That's not healthy.
boudoir photo shoots are very popular nowadays, you even mentioned them in your list of clients he is soliciting. it is likely he told her you would enjoy something like this as a gift. if she trusts him and was thinking the whole time its “its for OP” why would she have any doubt in her friends intentions. women dont usually assume all their male friends want to fuck them.
If your husband had an ounce of either love or respect for you he wouldn’t have done this nor would he continue. But he doesn’t.
So now that you know that you need to decide if you want to do with this knowledge. Most people would choose to divorce and go their separate way. A very few might choose to just online with him for other reasons despite him hooking up and having mistresses outside the marriage. And another few might work very hot to save the marriage – possibly including marriage or personal counseling.
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This sounds like an unwise way to go. Too confusing. When a couple breaks up, they need distance, not a shared home and dog.
One of you should move out – get a sublettor for the duration. You and your ex can keep in loose touch with an occasional text but no monitoring who sleeps where. That's not healthy.
boudoir photo shoots are very popular nowadays, you even mentioned them in your list of clients he is soliciting. it is likely he told her you would enjoy something like this as a gift. if she trusts him and was thinking the whole time its “its for OP” why would she have any doubt in her friends intentions. women dont usually assume all their male friends want to fuck them.
Why do you need a guy that lies to you about a woman he has a close relationship with and continuously prioritizes?
Why are you okay enough with this to stay?
If your husband had an ounce of either love or respect for you he wouldn’t have done this nor would he continue. But he doesn’t.
So now that you know that you need to decide if you want to do with this knowledge. Most people would choose to divorce and go their separate way. A very few might choose to just online with him for other reasons despite him hooking up and having mistresses outside the marriage. And another few might work very hot to save the marriage – possibly including marriage or personal counseling.
Time to move on. Block him as well.