Well, it's a known fact that sex decreases after marriage and it dies after children. The engagement process is where things should be at their hottest. If they're dry now then it'll be a desert after.
First off, if you ask this question on Reddit the answer you’re gonna get is that your marriage is over because people here are incapable of seeing a happy open marriage. I will say, people have opened their relationship up and been fine and some people haven’t. The truth is it’s all a person to person basis and if you don’t have a solid foundation of trust then there’s no point. You need to think long and very hot about the changes it’ll bring.
Know what I did with my gap year? Worked. Went to Japan with my parents. Didn’t have a partner who was literally planning on finding an excuse to hit me and admitting it.
What does forgiveness look like you and can you do it? Being cheated on is bad but you have the right to talk more about if you want to. You are the victim here. If you were to talk about it, what would you say??
Second time around, I asked her 48 hours before the date. She waited until the evening before the date to let me know she could only make it later. I told her I made other plans since she hadn't answered in over a day.
My logic was that if after waiting over 24 hours for a confirmation I would still make concessions regarding the hour, I would look like the biggest pushover ever, and give the impression I'm a loser that has nothing else going on in my life than going out with her.
Doesn't sit good with me. Advice her in the future to always be open about these things, keeping it to herself just makes her look bad.
That stated this guy is 100% an asshole, but people like him usually end up getting what they want. Manipulation, mind games, and eventually breaking down her guard over time is what will happen if he is allowed to stick around. Imagine all those wives who cheat because the guy is persistant slowly crumbling their defenses and dripping poison into their ears. Eventually, given enough time maybe even years, they always crack.
Have an honest adult conversation. Communicate how she makes you feel and then listen.
If you don’t like her response, communicate to her that your current situation is not working for you and maybe after some time you can be friends but for now you are going to end your relationship and move on. Or something like that.
The amount of disrespect… I could never look at my husband the same way. Physically/emotionally cheating or not, he’s making you look like a blind fool at your place of employment. This must be humiliating for you; I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I wouldn’t stand for it. It’s time to take the trash out, starting with a new job and a new divorce attorney.
When we talk, particularly about hobbies, I pay attention and when he mentions something he would like to get, I make a mental note so I have ideas for Xmas of bdays. As an example, he always comments on my Kindle and mentioned he wouldn't mind to have one so I got it for him but he was like 'i was going to buy it myself'.
If you don't have any sex life, maybe he is using the games to try to replace the interaction with you. Meaning that he because they are “participatory”, they fulfill a need better than just watching videos.
If your marriage truly is sexless, eventually something will break and videos or games probably won't be enough for him.
Oh he did, Nick Cannon is just building an army for when aliens invade
What is your obsession with vaginas? You keep posting these things and no one ever wants to deal with your antics.
Well, it's a known fact that sex decreases after marriage and it dies after children. The engagement process is where things should be at their hottest. If they're dry now then it'll be a desert after.
First off, if you ask this question on Reddit the answer you’re gonna get is that your marriage is over because people here are incapable of seeing a happy open marriage. I will say, people have opened their relationship up and been fine and some people haven’t. The truth is it’s all a person to person basis and if you don’t have a solid foundation of trust then there’s no point. You need to think long and very hot about the changes it’ll bring.
Know what I did with my gap year? Worked. Went to Japan with my parents. Didn’t have a partner who was literally planning on finding an excuse to hit me and admitting it.
If you don’t x, then I will y.
That’s an ultimatum.
Go ahead and divorce your high school sweetheart. Nothing good is coming your way.
What does forgiveness look like you and can you do it? Being cheated on is bad but you have the right to talk more about if you want to. You are the victim here. If you were to talk about it, what would you say??
You really should tell him.
I usually don’t want updates. But I need an update to this one. I also hope your son lays it out on Reddit.
This is utter trash. I couldn’t imagine doing this to my kids. There are so many people out there..like come on.
Second time around, I asked her 48 hours before the date. She waited until the evening before the date to let me know she could only make it later. I told her I made other plans since she hadn't answered in over a day.
My logic was that if after waiting over 24 hours for a confirmation I would still make concessions regarding the hour, I would look like the biggest pushover ever, and give the impression I'm a loser that has nothing else going on in my life than going out with her.
Doesn't sit good with me. Advice her in the future to always be open about these things, keeping it to herself just makes her look bad.
That stated this guy is 100% an asshole, but people like him usually end up getting what they want. Manipulation, mind games, and eventually breaking down her guard over time is what will happen if he is allowed to stick around. Imagine all those wives who cheat because the guy is persistant slowly crumbling their defenses and dripping poison into their ears. Eventually, given enough time maybe even years, they always crack.
He needs to douche up in there
Have an honest adult conversation. Communicate how she makes you feel and then listen.
If you don’t like her response, communicate to her that your current situation is not working for you and maybe after some time you can be friends but for now you are going to end your relationship and move on. Or something like that.
The amount of disrespect… I could never look at my husband the same way. Physically/emotionally cheating or not, he’s making you look like a blind fool at your place of employment. This must be humiliating for you; I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I wouldn’t stand for it. It’s time to take the trash out, starting with a new job and a new divorce attorney.
When we talk, particularly about hobbies, I pay attention and when he mentions something he would like to get, I make a mental note so I have ideas for Xmas of bdays. As an example, he always comments on my Kindle and mentioned he wouldn't mind to have one so I got it for him but he was like 'i was going to buy it myself'.
How often do you guys sleep together?
If you don't have any sex life, maybe he is using the games to try to replace the interaction with you. Meaning that he because they are “participatory”, they fulfill a need better than just watching videos.
If your marriage truly is sexless, eventually something will break and videos or games probably won't be enough for him.