but I do not want to hurt my current girlfriend nor ex-coworker
Too late, you're going to hurt one of them, whatever way this ends.
I really feel for your current gf, though. It's not just that you've been hanging out with someone else. It's that you've been actively flirting and putting yourself into situations where YOU KNOW this could develop further, and then when you do noticed it was getting serious or you're getting “insanely” close to someone else, you chose not to stop. And you've been at this for A YEAR.
Are you aware that *1/4 OF YOUR ENTIRE RELATIONSHIP* has been spent pining for someone else? How is that fair to her?
Years ago, my father put a lien on our childhood home to bail out his business without telling my mom. He didn’t pay, and the house went into foreclosure, which she found out about after someone came to repossess her car.
Eerily similar to what happened to my mom. My step dad forged her signature to take out a second mortgage on our house to bail out his failing insurance business. He never made a payment towards the second mortgage, and also stopped paying on the primary mortgage, and our house was in foreclosure. My mom never knew because he was very careful to get the mail and destroy any letters from the mortgage companies. She found out when he asked her for a divorce. He served her divorce papers in addition to all the correspondence about the pending foreclosure and said “this is your problem now” and bounced. Mom said “I never signed this,” and he said “Yeah but the company thinks you did.” Mom tried to fight it in court, but my step dads mother is wealthy and got him an extremely good lawyer. Mom ended up having to file bankruptcy and move. At least by then both my sister and I had our own homes, so she wasn't out on the streets trying to take care of a couple of kids.
Nah, at some point men will have to start taking some responsibility for their own reproductive choices. Don't want kids, having sex and not using your own contraception, that all on you.
Men are just as responsible for using their own contraception as women are, let's stop normalizing that this shit is always her responsibility to take for him
Idk man, I think it could mean that… “she had stomach problems and that's all.”
Your entire post is you saying you are unhappy with not getting any presents.
but I do not want to hurt my current girlfriend nor ex-coworker
Too late, you're going to hurt one of them, whatever way this ends.
I really feel for your current gf, though. It's not just that you've been hanging out with someone else. It's that you've been actively flirting and putting yourself into situations where YOU KNOW this could develop further, and then when you do noticed it was getting serious or you're getting “insanely” close to someone else, you chose not to stop. And you've been at this for A YEAR.
Are you aware that *1/4 OF YOUR ENTIRE RELATIONSHIP* has been spent pining for someone else? How is that fair to her?
Years ago, my father put a lien on our childhood home to bail out his business without telling my mom. He didn’t pay, and the house went into foreclosure, which she found out about after someone came to repossess her car.
Eerily similar to what happened to my mom. My step dad forged her signature to take out a second mortgage on our house to bail out his failing insurance business. He never made a payment towards the second mortgage, and also stopped paying on the primary mortgage, and our house was in foreclosure. My mom never knew because he was very careful to get the mail and destroy any letters from the mortgage companies. She found out when he asked her for a divorce. He served her divorce papers in addition to all the correspondence about the pending foreclosure and said “this is your problem now” and bounced. Mom said “I never signed this,” and he said “Yeah but the company thinks you did.” Mom tried to fight it in court, but my step dads mother is wealthy and got him an extremely good lawyer. Mom ended up having to file bankruptcy and move. At least by then both my sister and I had our own homes, so she wasn't out on the streets trying to take care of a couple of kids.
He was a Grade A Jumbo asshole.
Nah, at some point men will have to start taking some responsibility for their own reproductive choices. Don't want kids, having sex and not using your own contraception, that all on you.
Men are just as responsible for using their own contraception as women are, let's stop normalizing that this shit is always her responsibility to take for him
You’re an ass