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Date: October 10, 2022
I get that, and I get the fear of ending up in your mum's position. But the solution isn't to try and force your partner into her position. The solution is to form a relationship where you are equal partners, nobody has to be the one that does 100% of the cooking and has that all on their shoulders. It's possible to have a relationship dynamic that doesn't look like your parents
If we were in same location, we would already been together, but we are in different country now, it is the 2nd time i went over to visit him. But we knew each other from high school, and we have been texting consistently for 4 months, so i trusted him more than anyone. We talk and act like couples, but none of us ever bring it up or ask to be official.
I'm sorry to inform you that it's going to get worse. She clearly doesn't care about your sexual needs.
To call him abusive is laughable. His reaction is not a pattern of events, it’s him being upset and frustrated and angry at your abusive ass for years. If he started spitting in your face and pushing you into shit every day from now on then sure, but until he makes a pattern of it, it isn’t abuse. Did he need to do that? No. But do I blame him? Not at all. Break up, leave him and work on yourself without hurting other people.
Thank you for the in depth response really
And yeah I have gotten that vibe from her before – I mean she did say her 30s were for her and no one else, and I’m okay with that. I do appreciate everything she did for me and I’m not like. Happy with our mother that my sister had to look after me like that.
And yeah I’m working on the support structure I guess. My therapist recommended I join a friend finding service or something bc he thinks I need it so… ig it’s time to be a big girl and put myself out there.
And yeah, like – I’m not happy about her dating someone so young, and I don’t think it’ll last, but mostly I’m just concerned? She’s always out, always drinking, now she’s ill and not slowing down… but confrontations won’t work like you say, I’ve learned that the very hot way haha
I think like you and the other commentator said, I’ll just give her space to do her thing and try to sober her up in the mornings when she gets back. And like. Do my own thing and not worry about her so much.
Thank you again for replying
It is never ok to hit your spouse. Not even if they say “vile words” to you. Your husband is 100% to blame for his actions.
Your girlfriend is a piece of shit. You were fucking raped, and she says “oh it's not so bad”.
One day she will regret being so callous. She might even reach out. Do yourself a favor and leave her ignored.
Block her right now. Block any of her sympathizing friends RIGHT NOW.
I agree that divorce is the way to go, but I need to correct something you've said;
We both love our son and want what's best for him
I would argue that your husband doesn't actually think about what's best for your son at all, let alone 'want it for him. If he did, he wouldn't be even contemplating living in a van, or moving him around constantly, and he sure as hell would be doing his best to not just provide a good life for him, but a good example.
Your husband isn't thinking about what's best for your son, at all. Which means you need to, unfortunately. So yes, I am in the firm boat that you need a divorce, urgently, but I think you also need to build some rules around custody and distance into the decree (means you'll need a lawyer, sorry). But he needs to legally not be able to just pick up your son and disappear to another state with him for a few weeks.
You need to get it out of your head that he prioritises your kid, because his actions speak otherwise, and you need to build rules into the divorce judgement to properly prioritise your kid, since he won't.
8 months in, no kids, not married, not even living together. But your money us all hers now? Nope. Don't wait for her to contact you. Block her and see her leaving and using the silent treatment as the breakup.
You are set, For Life. You can retire in 6 years. Do not risk that. There are plenty of other people out there.
This. OP i grew up in an abusive household too. I loathed it as a kid. I became such a scared little girl that didn't dare bother the adults because i didn't want to upset my father in any way.
I never wanted that for my kids. Luckily i married someone who knew exactly what tht was like aswell and we just dont communicate our differences with violence or aggression at all.
I would honestly as much as i adore my husband with all of my heart leave him in a heartbeat if he ever so much as made me flinch by just lifting a hand. Not even hitting me. Your wife has slapped u and hit u before.. and im sorry but that should've been an out right there.
The fact your kid is literally attached to ur hip AFRAID!!! of their own mother after seeing her punch u. That shit does so much to a kid. They think then it's okay to allow it with future spouses… because they Apologize and cry and promise it wont happen again…
Like your wife has does.. countless times.. and your kids will end up staying in those same abusive relationships because dad stayed…
My mom left! It was naked bt jesus we were all better off. Her actions had consequences u cannot save her or make her change. She hasn't. It's gonna escelate and what she's just gonna blame u?
“Oh u just made her so mad.”
“She's so stressed out about the kids she just cant handle it”
She's a fucking adult woman! She needs to handle her shit better we always say our abusive partners would never hurt our kids but you probably thought she wouldn't ever punch u infront of them either didn't u?
Do the best thing for your children and walk away! Dont continue this cycle.. unless u want to see your kids in the same position you are in when they are adults and know you had a hand in it!
Be safe!
Why should he believe you when you don't believe you?