Cheated twice in college during a long distance relationship. Not really affairs but ok. Never said it was ok. The wife changed the behavior and has been faithful for a decade. Like I said if OP is willing this could be worked out in couples therapy and other means. I am normally a “NTA divorce” type of mindset. I just see this one as fixable. It’s just my opinion an OP has to do what’s best for himself.
What the hell, he having an affair there not best friends.
Tell him you have seen the messages and your done. He made his choice in those messages and it ain't you.
From what I can gather there is he dumped you to pursue her and she shot him down.. then he lied and came back to easy option B.. ( which is you) and said he was confused and doesn't have those feelings… when really he does and she shot him down… which would explain the text he said . ” it could of been you in her place”
I know that’s why I’m trying to either sort out my relationship or leave before that happens. I don’t want a baby if that’s all he wants me for.
Ugghh, I wouldn't bring her anywhere. That is disgusting
Ugghh, I wouldn't bring her anywhere. That is disgusting
Cheated twice in college during a long distance relationship. Not really affairs but ok. Never said it was ok. The wife changed the behavior and has been faithful for a decade. Like I said if OP is willing this could be worked out in couples therapy and other means. I am normally a “NTA divorce” type of mindset. I just see this one as fixable. It’s just my opinion an OP has to do what’s best for himself.
NTA, means he doesn’t understand women
Call the police and ask for an emergency protection order because he is threatening to harm you.
I’m seeing a lot of comments on my notifications btw, but they are showing here. Know anything about that?
What the hell, he having an affair there not best friends.
Tell him you have seen the messages and your done. He made his choice in those messages and it ain't you.
From what I can gather there is he dumped you to pursue her and she shot him down.. then he lied and came back to easy option B.. ( which is you) and said he was confused and doesn't have those feelings… when really he does and she shot him down… which would explain the text he said . ” it could of been you in her place”
Meaning he wanted it she didn't.
Get ya head out the cloud and dump him.
Utterly disrespectful