It often means you are indeed insecure and that you need approval from the other men. You maybe don't respect approval from your man enough.
I know a lot of girls that boost their ego by letting other guys flirt with them just so they can be in power of denying them and feeling good about it. Maybe your relationship has it flaws, every does btw, so your inner self is scared of going through breakup. A lot of people have this problem, they are scared of being single after a good relationship, so when they notice a little bit of a bad change in their relationship they seek attention from other men so they know they can always have someone to comfort them. I am not going to make assumptions, what is your relationships status? Is it going well, did you talk to your partner about it? How are things between you two?
Ah, yes. But things start to happen to men as they age and gravity takes it’s toll on them as well. They are just lucky that they get to wear briefs that keep those sagging things unnoticeable in the every day world. OP, IF you decide to stay with this man, he owes you BIG kissing up. Think travel, jewelry, romance. It sounds like his friends who didn’t laugh are a lot classier than he is.
Sorry i shouldve added in that I've mentioned it to my parents on day 1, they told me not to get involved in their family dynamics so I've been biting my tongue most times and not going crazy on them yet. But I was planning on telling more in depth everything once I was back home
Oh no, being determined to not cheat again isn't going to keep it from happening.
Your mind will fail you. If something is too uncomfortable to think about, you will want to prefer the truth is something else instead. It may be it will be to hard to prefer believing that it matters, that you'll get caught, that you'll hurt him, and so on.
You'll have trouble accepting it as the truth. It will be easier to believe something you'd prefer was better than those. You're depending on clarity, but determination won't protect your clarity. If anything, it will make it worse.
The only fix is to retrain your mind to weather hard things to accept about yourself and life.
I'm not sure why you're tolerating this situation. You want to end the relationship. She's conned you into trying to make it work, but instead she's just badmouthing you to her family. No, this is not your situation to sort out, beyond ending the relationship properly and getting on with your life. You don't have to put up with her.
I wouldn't describe it as numb, maybe more like annoyed and slightly dissapointed that its happening but knowing that no matter what its not the end of the world. Instead of wasting my energy getting upset I just look for the who, what, when, why and how to stop it from happening again.
Call the cops report her threats. If you have all of her threats in writing like texts, send them to her family for proof so they can't get mad at you for “making this up” block and walk away.
I don't get it. What do you want? What do you care? Just keep to yourself and mind your own business. It isn't something you can or should care about it. Just leave them alone.
Don't know how long you two have been together or how long you have known her for but is this a general pattern of behavior? If not I might take her for her word, we do get weird sometimes when sleep deprived. But I would also encourage you to be look out for other future erratic behavior or suggestions.
Do you know when it happened?
It often means you are indeed insecure and that you need approval from the other men. You maybe don't respect approval from your man enough.
I know a lot of girls that boost their ego by letting other guys flirt with them just so they can be in power of denying them and feeling good about it. Maybe your relationship has it flaws, every does btw, so your inner self is scared of going through breakup. A lot of people have this problem, they are scared of being single after a good relationship, so when they notice a little bit of a bad change in their relationship they seek attention from other men so they know they can always have someone to comfort them. I am not going to make assumptions, what is your relationships status? Is it going well, did you talk to your partner about it? How are things between you two?
Interesting I agree. It’s just the goodlooking guys that are living the dream now that’s making me feel left out
Give her some time, you sound so needy and clingy. Behave normally and stop over texting.
Remember, when you are so needy, everyone will avoid you. Less talk and more love.
Ah, yes. But things start to happen to men as they age and gravity takes it’s toll on them as well. They are just lucky that they get to wear briefs that keep those sagging things unnoticeable in the every day world. OP, IF you decide to stay with this man, he owes you BIG kissing up. Think travel, jewelry, romance. It sounds like his friends who didn’t laugh are a lot classier than he is.
More samples is great for validation
Sorry i shouldve added in that I've mentioned it to my parents on day 1, they told me not to get involved in their family dynamics so I've been biting my tongue most times and not going crazy on them yet. But I was planning on telling more in depth everything once I was back home
Oh no, being determined to not cheat again isn't going to keep it from happening.
Your mind will fail you. If something is too uncomfortable to think about, you will want to prefer the truth is something else instead. It may be it will be to hard to prefer believing that it matters, that you'll get caught, that you'll hurt him, and so on.
You'll have trouble accepting it as the truth. It will be easier to believe something you'd prefer was better than those. You're depending on clarity, but determination won't protect your clarity. If anything, it will make it worse.
The only fix is to retrain your mind to weather hard things to accept about yourself and life.
Why don’t you get a courthouse marriage now? Keep a secret and then do the bigger wedding in November.
He should just delete her without a word.
If she asks why, he can say “Prob for the same reason you kept DM'ing me your photo. Just the opposite.”
I'm not sure why you're tolerating this situation. You want to end the relationship. She's conned you into trying to make it work, but instead she's just badmouthing you to her family. No, this is not your situation to sort out, beyond ending the relationship properly and getting on with your life. You don't have to put up with her.
Leave lol, like come on..
I guess your relationship is over.
Damn that last line hits very hot. Sorry but if he brags about your sister's boobs, it's probably because he wants your sister's boobs.
I wouldn't describe it as numb, maybe more like annoyed and slightly dissapointed that its happening but knowing that no matter what its not the end of the world. Instead of wasting my energy getting upset I just look for the who, what, when, why and how to stop it from happening again.
i have her unfriended since yesterday (i told her that i wanted to do a no contact 2 days ago)
Wow, seriously, you plan on going on a date with another man just to see what he's like? Are you gonna sleep with him just to see what it's like?
BOTH of them deserve better and I hope you get caught.
Call the cops report her threats. If you have all of her threats in writing like texts, send them to her family for proof so they can't get mad at you for “making this up” block and walk away.
She needs professional way more than you can give
I don't get it. What do you want? What do you care? Just keep to yourself and mind your own business. It isn't something you can or should care about it. Just leave them alone.
What question? ?
Don't know how long you two have been together or how long you have known her for but is this a general pattern of behavior? If not I might take her for her word, we do get weird sometimes when sleep deprived. But I would also encourage you to be look out for other future erratic behavior or suggestions.