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Thank you! I think this is the best advice I received so far. You really hit every aspect with precision. I appreciate your feedback and advice. Ps. If you are not a psychologist/therapist already, you would make an excellent one!
People are saying the message is too nice, but I think it’s fitting. It shows you’re a mature, kind, and thoughtful person and that makes it pretty apparent he’s too shitty to deserve someone like you. Also shows the ability to communicate well, which is key in any meaningful relationship, and is practicing skills for just being a better person/way of learning and growing even from crappy situations
Sounds like you’re going to struggle. As much we all idealistically want to say “money isn’t everything”, it really is when there’s problems with it. And money problems extend significantly beyond simply not having enough of it. I suspect even if you were to sort this, it wouldn’t be the last conversation like this you have. When legalities start coming into the financial considerations of a relationship you’re starting to go down a rough track as well. I’d consider if this is worth splitting up over and act accordingly.
Yup, father is definitely at fault but so is she. Like why would you decide to keep a baby knowing he's engaged. Like what is she trying to get out of this?? It just makes no sense in bringing a child into this mess, not even together and she wants a child before a relationship, the bar is in hell
this is all such creepy advice. against the wife’s wishes, drive her there then try to get in and if refused, sit at the hotel until she’s done. is the goal here to ruin her reputation at work with this controlling advice?
Your boyfriend (ex I hope), is a vicious and nasty child having a temper tantrum because everything is all about him. He should be with you every step of the way to help you heal from an extremely traumatic event but instead of that, he is pissed off because you are obviously needing time and some help.
He doesn't care about the why you need time to yourself – he only cares about how it is affecting him.
He is a really vile person and showing you his true colours. I am sorry that it took such a devastating event for you to see him as he really is.
This is not a relationship so please don't waste your time trying to open his eyes. “There are none so blind as those who will not see”
Nope just no. Move in with that man and it's over for you
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Thank you! I think this is the best advice I received so far. You really hit every aspect with precision. I appreciate your feedback and advice. Ps. If you are not a psychologist/therapist already, you would make an excellent one!
All of the above
Yeah it doesnt make sense, did something happen around the time she became like this? Idk family in the hospital, ill children…
Don't agree to boundaries you think are unreasonable then.
People are saying the message is too nice, but I think it’s fitting. It shows you’re a mature, kind, and thoughtful person and that makes it pretty apparent he’s too shitty to deserve someone like you. Also shows the ability to communicate well, which is key in any meaningful relationship, and is practicing skills for just being a better person/way of learning and growing even from crappy situations
Sounds like you’re going to struggle. As much we all idealistically want to say “money isn’t everything”, it really is when there’s problems with it. And money problems extend significantly beyond simply not having enough of it. I suspect even if you were to sort this, it wouldn’t be the last conversation like this you have. When legalities start coming into the financial considerations of a relationship you’re starting to go down a rough track as well. I’d consider if this is worth splitting up over and act accordingly.
Yup, father is definitely at fault but so is she. Like why would you decide to keep a baby knowing he's engaged. Like what is she trying to get out of this?? It just makes no sense in bringing a child into this mess, not even together and she wants a child before a relationship, the bar is in hell
this is all such creepy advice. against the wife’s wishes, drive her there then try to get in and if refused, sit at the hotel until she’s done. is the goal here to ruin her reputation at work with this controlling advice?
Your boyfriend (ex I hope), is a vicious and nasty child having a temper tantrum because everything is all about him. He should be with you every step of the way to help you heal from an extremely traumatic event but instead of that, he is pissed off because you are obviously needing time and some help.
He doesn't care about the why you need time to yourself – he only cares about how it is affecting him.
He is a really vile person and showing you his true colours. I am sorry that it took such a devastating event for you to see him as he really is.
This is not a relationship so please don't waste your time trying to open his eyes. “There are none so blind as those who will not see”