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Date: October 26, 2022
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I understand your confusion and indecision about this situation. It's difficult to make major life decisions under a cloud of uncertainty, especially when there are so many other people involved. My suggestion would be that you take the time to explore all your options with care, getting factual information on the disorder in order to make an informed choice. You sound like someone who has thought a lot about their future and what they need, which is important when making any type of decision – but particularly one involving such high stakes as a potential marriage commitment. Take it slow right now and seek advice from both medical professionals and those close to you whom you trust for objective input on the matter before any final decisions are made or commitments made. Put yourself first in this process because ultimately it is up to you alone how much risk or responsibility you want be taking on by continuing down this path.
I think the issue here is that she should be a priority for NYE, not your friends. I'd have expected you to tell your friends you and I are now able to be together at that time. And makes plans with me.
What did she say when you asked her about that? About misleading you into thinking she wasn’t into hook ups.
30F? Grow up
Oh barf. Don't know how I missed that. Insecure and racist, what a combo.
To put it mildly, it's a dopey idea. If he wants to “sow his wild oats” then he shouldn't be in a relationship. No OP, it's a REALLY bad idea. Don't compromise your own happiness. He's being immature. If he truly wants this say “we could open the relationship. However in saying this, I get to have sex with other people too.” If he says no, then you could say, “there's your answer. Commit to me, or we go our separate ways.”
If his thinking is that he fears he's missing out on things, you can always try other stuff sexually. Ask if he has any fantasies. Do you have any that you haven't told him?
That’s horseshit. No excuse after dating that long to pull that.
She sounds like she is ok with sexual flirty… the vibratory thing you could certainly add “well go for it, will have me dreaming about you.” “would love to try it together someday”. She has set the convo tone, just don't go too much further iykwim
Complaining about no action… 2 possibles… she is checking if you have had action. So if true, confirm. your lack of action… that your bedroom is so used to you just being alone it would get jealous if you had a girl over. Or, telling her you would love to end both your dry spells together. Or, saying she is so gorgeous and funny/easy to talk to that you are shocked she doesn't have a million men chasing her.
So compliments or confirm you are interested… but light and fun
Are you honestly shocked that the woman you’re supposed to be entering a lifelong monogamous relationship with is disturbed that you have a matching tattoo with someone else(who is still currently very involved in your life) about the specific way in which you would like to kiss that other person?
“Honey just put your sweet lips on my lips, we should just kiss like real people do.”
Like you picked the most intimate, and specifically romantically intimate, part of that song to brand yourself with in honor of someone that you still have a relationship with. She’s trying to incorporate the song into the wedding because she’s uncomfortable with your emotional affair side piece. She wants to be your wife, not your beard. Hope that clears things up for you.
Just break off the engagement and build your 28m an art room.
Yeah dude that's a major red flag that she's immature and still in her partying stage at best, and at worst she is an alcoholic.
I already broke up with him. He’s trying everything he can do to convince me not to leave him, but I don’t care. I won’t make the mistake of trusting him again
I’d be out the door
The relationship is just a screaming mass of toxic mayhem – if this relationship was going to work it already would be. Sometimes real strength and growth comes from recognising when to walk away. If you don’t this is what the next 5years looks like for the two of you. Nothing changes if nothing changes