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She's a poster child for family success, what can I say.
Thats why im looking for advice. obviously its a tough situation
This seems too obvious to be real, but just don’t invite people you’ve never actually met to your home for sex..? It’s not difficult dude.
Pride too often leads to destruction.
Your county or city may have low-cost, subsidized therapy available. Or if you’re near a university, you might be able to get student therapists at a steep discount.
I don’t agree with the comments saying your boyfriend is being toxic/abusive. I think he’s being self-centered and inadequate, and that’s a good enough reason to end this relationship.
Here’s what really jumped out at me – you’ve outgrown him. You’ve been through some really tough shit in the last year between the assault and the other stress you’ve mentioned, and it sounds like you’ve really needed someone who could step up, be a true shoulder for you to lean on, and do whatever they could to make your life easier while you dealt with the parts of your struggle that only you alone could face. And you didn’t get that from him. You still don’t. You can’t even talk to him about your own sexual relationship because you have to navigate his pre-existing feelings about that situation AND the assault.
It’s just too much – you need someone who’s sharing the mental and emotional load of working through these issues, not someone who’s essentially a backseat driver throughout the process, subtly criticising you for how you handle it while offering nothing constructive to help you out. I get that he also has feelings about what happened and of course he’s allowed to have them, but he should have been proactive about finding his OWN space outside of your relationship to process those feelings, so that he had the emotional space to show up for you in the ways you need, instead of the bare minimum he can apparently manage.
I think you have a lot of healing to do, and I don’t think you will be able to do it within this relationship. You simply don’t get enough support, space or understanding from your boyfriend for him to be the person you need by your side in this period of your life. If he was younger, I’d give him grace to say he just doesn’t know what to do here – but he’s 30 years old. He has access to the internet, there’s no reason he couldn’t proactively seek out ways to help you better if he felt he was out of his depth. Saying he doesn’t blame you for the assault means nothing if he continues patterns of behaviour that place responsibility on you, even if he does it unintentionally.
You need better support than he can offer, hun. And more importantly, you need distance from the stress and guilt the current dynamic between you is causing. You can’t heal in a burning house. I think you need to end things.
It's not gaslighting, just good ol' manipulation from a significantly older partner. Get rid of him, you can find better (and less controlling).
He knows it’s a massive problem. He wouldn’t try dieting and nutritionists if he didn’t know he should be healthier.
You want advise on how to bring it up but really you’d just be telling him what he knows.
No it shouldn't be, we can all have opinions on it at a personal level or an abstract one but it is entirely inappropriate to try to coerce someone into changing their mind.
Anything else is inappropriate.
I've never understood the appeal. There's a literally purpose made opening like….right there. Thankfully neither myself or my girlfriend are interested.
As someone who looks young, I’m confused why the intense reactions? I’ve had people thinking I was a teen mom and what not, but as soon as I clarify I’m not, they’re chill. Is your wife extremely short or something too?
He probably stayed in the relationship for the sex until he can find someone else in his new city.
I would send him the screenshot. Nothing else. Then block and ghost him.
I'm sorry you have to deal with this, he's an AH. No matter what you say, he's moved on. You need to do the same. And if you ask about it he'll probably say he's just looking for new friends or some BS.
Dump her mate. She aint worth it.
Info: Do you maybe not get along with someone in the wedding party? Like the bride or groomsman/bridesmaids? Are you not in the wedding party at all?
I’m so fascinated and curious how one day these guys were drooling over one and now moving on to the next.
Sorry bro, but are you really any different?
incredibly gorgeous girl, turns heads attractive they’re pretty but not even close as attractive as the first coworker
You're demonstrating the same characteristics, but being more subtle about it.
Anyways.
Yeah, it sucks.
People will play “Mr. Nice Guy”, until they realize its a lost cause. Its an act and ingenuine.
Think about Heidi. Probably gone her entire life with people advancing on her… And being in a workplace, sometimes you just want to keep your head down and get a paycheque.
She is accustomed to this.
And likely developed a skillset to shut down things quickly and keep the workplace professional. Resulting in men making a try for her, and then giving up (lost cause).
It also wouldn't be a surprise if she felt compelled to act cold to others, just to deter them from advancing on her.
She sounds like a woman who can take care of herself.
Not sure what advice you're looking for here?
This, just makes no sense to me here:
ignoring attractive quiet girl (25F) in favor of younger outgoing coworkers (24F) (23F) and expressing favoritism.
Why does any of this shit really matter? Go to work. Do your job. This isn't high school.