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Those words should’ve come out of his mouth to his partner. Not his ex. If he wanted to know for sure, he should’ve grown a spine and talked to her directly.
Why are you looking at her searches? My husband got a new phone and I opened his browser to look at how it displayed and it showed his google history and I immediately closed it and handed it back to him because I didn’t need to see that.
She could have been sending articles to her friends that she was concerned about.
Just tell her that you can't possibly swing the increased rent on one income. If you're in the middle of an immigration case it would be best to not change addresses anyway. Then once she can work and once you're a dual income household you can talk about making some changes. P.S. Complaining about her fastidiousness was absolutely unnecessary to the gist of your question so make sure you can handle living with her before you affix your name to the Affidavit of Support. That makes you liable for her debts for a decade whether you stay together or not.
Well he hid it because he thought he had the other job so he wouldn’t be left with nothing. But, since I’m pretty sure he name dropped them in his rant, someone could easily have told the other job and they’d have rescinded it even if they HAD offered it to him. So point taken.
Especially when u consider that she wants kids, there’s no way to read this situation that isn’t her using him as security for family life whilst getting to live! out her sexual fantasies at the cost of OPs mental health.
She told me he will respect her boundaries, but I don't really feel about this this way. I don't think he just magically stopped being in love with her.
Unforgivable wow. I would think given that I have struggled too and I have had bad women in my life that I could at least neutralize this. I may be a bit bipolar, but there was so much positivity apart from making this mistake that I was trying to be the exact opposite of someone who follows. We've studied the same classes, and we are both pretty smart. The first thing I ever wanted to say was that their positivity was amazing and I wanted to support them at graduation (I never got to say this), and I didn't know how to handle a new person like this. If it's unforgivable it seems odd to be very like minded and yet it's all over so quickly. When I see women with ideas I want to give them some too, I can't do that if I'm not a part of that. Sometimes a genius is crazy.
It's not about controlling her, she's free to do what she wants. However this is what I don't like about some women is they act oblivious and start drama. If you didn't want drama you don't bang your ex boyfriends best friend. Simple. Yet seems very hot to understand for some. Then again I can say the same for his best friend he shouldn't have gone after you either.
The fact OP is even considering telling her ex that she's sleeping with his best friend just tells me she likes drama. Yeah OP go ahead, text your ex and say' BTW I FUCKED YOUR BEST FRIEND.' See how it goes!
Tell him to take the money he saved to go get somd therapy so he doesn't act like a controlling asshat to the next girl dumb enough to date his insecure, pathetic ass. Enjoy your trip and make better choices in romantic partners.
If they decided to become friends after the formal therapy ended, nothing has been done wrong. There’s nothing to report unless your partner is a non-consenting adult being forced into a friendship. And it sounds like they aren’t.
You have a busy life, you're definitely not being rude for falling asleep! He's being a dick by trying to make you feel bad. If he can't accept it, then he should Foxtrot Oscar.
If she is suicidal, would STRONGLY recommend having a close friend there to act as a witness in case it goes sideways if you choose to breakup in person
You need to bite this bullet naked. It is not easy to break up but you two are not compatible.
Ok
OK – so break up. This seems far too simple to warrant a post.
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Those words should’ve come out of his mouth to his partner. Not his ex. If he wanted to know for sure, he should’ve grown a spine and talked to her directly.
Why are you looking at her searches? My husband got a new phone and I opened his browser to look at how it displayed and it showed his google history and I immediately closed it and handed it back to him because I didn’t need to see that.
She could have been sending articles to her friends that she was concerned about.
Just tell her that you can't possibly swing the increased rent on one income. If you're in the middle of an immigration case it would be best to not change addresses anyway. Then once she can work and once you're a dual income household you can talk about making some changes. P.S. Complaining about her fastidiousness was absolutely unnecessary to the gist of your question so make sure you can handle living with her before you affix your name to the Affidavit of Support. That makes you liable for her debts for a decade whether you stay together or not.
Yeah that’s cheating
How long before he meets someone new and you become the wife with kids he leaves behind. He is far too old for you. Don’t do this.
I Guess his income is not the only thing rising.
Lol this is a good case where reddits overreaction of telling you to dump your partner is justified. Move on
It sounds like you're trying to boss her around. Maybe she wants these casual experiences and a friend to cry with when they don't go well?
Well he hid it because he thought he had the other job so he wouldn’t be left with nothing. But, since I’m pretty sure he name dropped them in his rant, someone could easily have told the other job and they’d have rescinded it even if they HAD offered it to him. So point taken.
Especially when u consider that she wants kids, there’s no way to read this situation that isn’t her using him as security for family life whilst getting to live! out her sexual fantasies at the cost of OPs mental health.
Lmao I'm vile! Good luck i hope he shits all over u in ur sleep. Ur clearly trolling. Get a fucking life.
!remindme 1 week
She told me he will respect her boundaries, but I don't really feel about this this way. I don't think he just magically stopped being in love with her.
I think bf would end up being very controlling instead.
Unforgivable wow. I would think given that I have struggled too and I have had bad women in my life that I could at least neutralize this. I may be a bit bipolar, but there was so much positivity apart from making this mistake that I was trying to be the exact opposite of someone who follows. We've studied the same classes, and we are both pretty smart. The first thing I ever wanted to say was that their positivity was amazing and I wanted to support them at graduation (I never got to say this), and I didn't know how to handle a new person like this. If it's unforgivable it seems odd to be very like minded and yet it's all over so quickly. When I see women with ideas I want to give them some too, I can't do that if I'm not a part of that. Sometimes a genius is crazy.
It's not about controlling her, she's free to do what she wants. However this is what I don't like about some women is they act oblivious and start drama. If you didn't want drama you don't bang your ex boyfriends best friend. Simple. Yet seems very hot to understand for some. Then again I can say the same for his best friend he shouldn't have gone after you either.
The fact OP is even considering telling her ex that she's sleeping with his best friend just tells me she likes drama. Yeah OP go ahead, text your ex and say' BTW I FUCKED YOUR BEST FRIEND.' See how it goes!
Tell him to take the money he saved to go get somd therapy so he doesn't act like a controlling asshat to the next girl dumb enough to date his insecure, pathetic ass. Enjoy your trip and make better choices in romantic partners.
Leverage in case he ever tried getting with OP later I assume. This hole thing sounds like a jerry springer plot.
LMAOOO midway just whip out a video ?
If they decided to become friends after the formal therapy ended, nothing has been done wrong. There’s nothing to report unless your partner is a non-consenting adult being forced into a friendship. And it sounds like they aren’t.
You have a busy life, you're definitely not being rude for falling asleep! He's being a dick by trying to make you feel bad. If he can't accept it, then he should Foxtrot Oscar.
If she is suicidal, would STRONGLY recommend having a close friend there to act as a witness in case it goes sideways if you choose to breakup in person