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Ok, all they talk about is those guys. Try and talk about something else. Or gently (or bluntly, if needed) suggest that they move on, because it's been months and clearly those men aren't available. Suggest ways ro meet new people. Don't just say you had enough, be constructive and move the conversation and those women's attention to some other topic.
I was once attacked during a relationship and fell pregnant as well. The ex swore up and down I cheated on him, when I was drugged and remember nothing. I was in my home and ambushed. I woke up hours later like almost nothing had happened.
My point being… OP, you can do no wrong here. You need to have a happy pregnancy and a happy relationship. If your husband can't stand with you on abortion, the two of you need serious help. And by that I mean both counseling and therapy. Blessings are not born from curses. There are always other ways to get pregnant.
Because OP's husband Skeevy McSkeeverton probably told OP how she “WaS MoOoOrE MaTuRe tHaN AnY Of HeR FrieNds” and OP, one year out of high school, fell for that groomer speech hook, line and sinker.
It’s not a dilema. It’s assault. If he’s bold enough to do that when you’re at risk of waking up, who knows what he’d do if you were in a more vulnerable state. If you can’t trust him, you need to leave.
So the only way you can think of to convince me you have a valid argument is to send me to someone whose job is to brainwash people – without evidence – into following your religion. Classic.
No one “convinced” me in my beliefs. Again, atheism is the default. Religion was made up to fill in the gaps of missing knowledge. That served a purpose centuries ago, but it’s not at all necessary or even useful today. We have science now, and intellect.
Fortunately, followers of religion are dying off faster than they’re being replaced. People like OP’s girlfriend will continue being victims in the meantime, but it’s just a matter of time until actual intelligence prevails.
I am not just talking about the US, I’m talking about everyone.
I implore you – just ask a random person if they prefer their partner to be fit or fat and tally the results. Search up any experiment that does so on YouTube or something.
Furthermore, any unattractive guys are extremely sexually frustrated. The same doesn’t apply to women so much because it seems that some guys are desperate and will do it with anyone as long as it’s easy to set up a hookup. Marriage rates are down too, so I do not think you want to use that point in your favor. I’m not saying that the obesity epidemic is the root of all evil, but it very much does play a part in why we see less marriages today.
From the side of women, haven’t you heard them complain about there being no datable men these days? This is what they mean ( in addition to things like not having a decent job or still living with one’s parents )
I am sorry, I am unfamiliar with Niccadado Avocado. I only know him as a person who is cripplingly overweight. What would be a fair person to use instead? James Cordon, perhaps?
Anyhow, I’ll tell you that most of the people I know, and most of the people on Reddit will tell you they prefer fit bodies over fat ones. That doesn’t mean that you’re wrong if you’d prefer your partner to be pudgy instead of ripped, but it still holds that most people have a preference that is not yours.
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Try and bring up different topics?
Ok, all they talk about is those guys. Try and talk about something else. Or gently (or bluntly, if needed) suggest that they move on, because it's been months and clearly those men aren't available. Suggest ways ro meet new people. Don't just say you had enough, be constructive and move the conversation and those women's attention to some other topic.
Stop referring to women as “females.” It’s fucking annoying.
I was once attacked during a relationship and fell pregnant as well. The ex swore up and down I cheated on him, when I was drugged and remember nothing. I was in my home and ambushed. I woke up hours later like almost nothing had happened.
My point being… OP, you can do no wrong here. You need to have a happy pregnancy and a happy relationship. If your husband can't stand with you on abortion, the two of you need serious help. And by that I mean both counseling and therapy. Blessings are not born from curses. There are always other ways to get pregnant.
Because OP's husband Skeevy McSkeeverton probably told OP how she “WaS MoOoOrE MaTuRe tHaN AnY Of HeR FrieNds” and OP, one year out of high school, fell for that groomer speech hook, line and sinker.
And here she is…
It’s not a dilema. It’s assault. If he’s bold enough to do that when you’re at risk of waking up, who knows what he’d do if you were in a more vulnerable state. If you can’t trust him, you need to leave.
So the only way you can think of to convince me you have a valid argument is to send me to someone whose job is to brainwash people – without evidence – into following your religion. Classic.
No one “convinced” me in my beliefs. Again, atheism is the default. Religion was made up to fill in the gaps of missing knowledge. That served a purpose centuries ago, but it’s not at all necessary or even useful today. We have science now, and intellect.
Fortunately, followers of religion are dying off faster than they’re being replaced. People like OP’s girlfriend will continue being victims in the meantime, but it’s just a matter of time until actual intelligence prevails.
Yes 100%
There is no trauma Olympics there are no winners
It happened too you op, it’s relevant to you, it’s real, your aloud to feel what you feel and do what you need to do about it
I am not just talking about the US, I’m talking about everyone.
I implore you – just ask a random person if they prefer their partner to be fit or fat and tally the results. Search up any experiment that does so on YouTube or something.
Furthermore, any unattractive guys are extremely sexually frustrated. The same doesn’t apply to women so much because it seems that some guys are desperate and will do it with anyone as long as it’s easy to set up a hookup. Marriage rates are down too, so I do not think you want to use that point in your favor. I’m not saying that the obesity epidemic is the root of all evil, but it very much does play a part in why we see less marriages today.
From the side of women, haven’t you heard them complain about there being no datable men these days? This is what they mean ( in addition to things like not having a decent job or still living with one’s parents )
I am sorry, I am unfamiliar with Niccadado Avocado. I only know him as a person who is cripplingly overweight. What would be a fair person to use instead? James Cordon, perhaps?
Anyhow, I’ll tell you that most of the people I know, and most of the people on Reddit will tell you they prefer fit bodies over fat ones. That doesn’t mean that you’re wrong if you’d prefer your partner to be pudgy instead of ripped, but it still holds that most people have a preference that is not yours.