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First of all, talking about marriage and the future after 10 months is not too soon. In fact, for a 30-year-old man, that's pretty late. You lucked out because you're dating a younger woman.
Second, if you know about her visa situation, then you should have guessed this was going to come up. If you don't marry her, she's going to return to Brazil. So you're going to be single in fact, if not in spirit. You'll constantly be waiting for her to get a new visa. Or she's planning on being in the country illegally to stay with you.
Third, your requirement of dating for three years before marriage is arbitrary. You have walked directly into a situation where having such a rigid expectation of your life plan is harmful to your interests. You need to be honest with yourself – the problem isn't that you need or want to date for 3 years – you just don't want to marry this girl, yet or at all.
Personally I think this shows that you are, overall, a pretty immature and thoughtless guy who is definitely not ready for marriage. Just let the girl go home and move on with your life.
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Using a throwaway. I'm beyond devastated, but the most important thing is our daughter and that she not grow up in a toxic household. I don't believe that specifics of why the relationship is effectively over are really that relevant, but will answer questions. Obviously we will be co-parenting for decades, and I'm okay with that, but do I tell her now and rip the band aid off? Do I wait until after the baby is born? How long after the baby is born? Whatever it takes, our daughter is the priority for me now, so when do I tell her that has the least chance of harming the baby?
Edit: Firstly, almost every relationship ends for one person before the other. I don't think that's weird. Long story short after we agreed to have a baby, she gradually but profoundly changed from the person I fell in love with. I do all the chores now. While I have no problem doing all the cooking, all the cleaning, all the paying when my partner is pregnant, what she said over the weekend is that we cannot be equal partners in the keeping our home after the child arrives. She holds us to different standards for everything, and I guess she intends to keep it that way. I'd even be amenable to doing almost everything in the same manner, but not for an ingrate who said she is entitled to ongoing kid glove treatment. Romantic partners have to be partners, when there is a power differential and different standards of review, it's just not sustainable. While I want to make sure that she is taken care and stress-free as possible during the pregnancy, I can't keep operating in a household where only one of us is required to seek blessing to move any tiny thing. Seems small, but it's emblematic of the issue of the double standard. Again, I respect that pregnancy is very difficult, with emotions and hormones but she essentially confirmed yesterday that she does not want to go back to how we used to be and she doesn't want someone to be her teamate in our romantic relationship. Since she will be a mother, she will continue to demand the VIP treatment from me – that I gladly give to her while she is with child. I can stay in this relationship for years if need be, because I love the person she used to be and she was there for me in a time of great personal trauma. I'll remember it forever. I already love our daughter. I just want to know what people think about timing.
Your girlfriend is being sexually harassed by her boss. How many people have to tell you this? He isn’t holding a gun to her head forcing her but he’s twice her age and her boss. She could very well feel too uncomfortable to not play along for fear of upsetting him or not wanting to get fired.
Throw it away. The other options are keep it or give it back, both which seem bad for obvious reasons.
Fun fact in California spouse who makes the most can be ordered to pay legal expenses of the lesser earning spouse. Find out if your state has the same option. Also, never share lawyers.
Feeling that more and more.
I second this. The fact she’s making you feel so bad about buying a dildo that big is shameful. Maybe throw it back to her and tell her to start doing her pelvic floor exercises to tighten things up down there ??♀️ she’s way out of order.
Yeah, this isn’t going to end well.
Why did he decide to move in with her?