It's fine to be upset about it if it's an issue of double standards. But you seem more upset at some way it supposedly defiles her or something. And that's kind of weird.
This ought to just be a simple conversation about boundaries. It's messed up she saw nothing wrong with it if she's territorial herself. But it's easy for someone to feel it isn't intimate at all.
Block him, and give his wife all the ammo she could possibly need to annihilate him in a divorce.
All you need to tell your family is that you broke up (can add you found out he was cheating, technically not a lie), and to please respect that you don't wish to elaborate any further.
He prefers the version of you that he knows. He prefers RL to pics. Nothing wrong with that. I can relate. I have a very high drive etc. But photos or dirty texts really don't do much for me.
Porn in excess will rewire your brain to the point of ED and not being unable to perform within normal bounds of a healthy sexual relationship. He is addicted. He needs treatment. Go to love after porn sub. Go to SAA.org and have him take the SA quiz to see if he is a Sex Addict. You need a CSAT therapist for an evaluation and treatment plan for him to get well again. Or you can leave and let him be responsible for himself.
She’s abusive. Verbally and physically. Your daughter almost got caught being hit.
You aren’t reacting enough. It doesn’t matter if she apologizes, her abusive actions almost spilled onto your child. You should’ve been out the door with your child.
thank you 🙁 i hope to god he is not lying about it or making burner accounts. it's sometimes nude to trust as-is… i don't know if i could take finding out that there is more.
and i appreciate hearing that about my requests. sometimes if i wonder if i am asking too much
It's fine to be upset about it if it's an issue of double standards. But you seem more upset at some way it supposedly defiles her or something. And that's kind of weird.
This ought to just be a simple conversation about boundaries. It's messed up she saw nothing wrong with it if she's territorial herself. But it's easy for someone to feel it isn't intimate at all.
Block him, and give his wife all the ammo she could possibly need to annihilate him in a divorce.
All you need to tell your family is that you broke up (can add you found out he was cheating, technically not a lie), and to please respect that you don't wish to elaborate any further.
She will do it again. You deserve better.
He prefers the version of you that he knows. He prefers RL to pics. Nothing wrong with that. I can relate. I have a very high drive etc. But photos or dirty texts really don't do much for me.
Porn in excess will rewire your brain to the point of ED and not being unable to perform within normal bounds of a healthy sexual relationship. He is addicted. He needs treatment. Go to love after porn sub. Go to SAA.org and have him take the SA quiz to see if he is a Sex Addict. You need a CSAT therapist for an evaluation and treatment plan for him to get well again. Or you can leave and let him be responsible for himself.
She’s abusive. Verbally and physically. Your daughter almost got caught being hit.
You aren’t reacting enough. It doesn’t matter if she apologizes, her abusive actions almost spilled onto your child. You should’ve been out the door with your child.
thank you 🙁 i hope to god he is not lying about it or making burner accounts. it's sometimes nude to trust as-is… i don't know if i could take finding out that there is more.
and i appreciate hearing that about my requests. sometimes if i wonder if i am asking too much