Does your boyfriend have a mom or older sister you could at least have get you pads and tylenol when you need if stepmother won't help without getting your dad involved in a way that only makes it harder?? You need someone on your team in a big way and I'm so sorry you don't have that.
Is there a female teacher or coach you get along with you might be able to talk to about how it is at home?
Or an aunt or female family member in yours that you'll be seeing for the holidays? Its worth a shot.
You don’t need his permission, he is your husband not your parent.
Sounds like he is just insecure about your salary and not treating you well.
It’s in the best interests of your child for a) you to be in a healthy situation where you are not sad and being isolated and b) for you to have financial security, which you would have if you worked.
Sounds like you don’t want to be a full time stay at home wife or mother, so why do you think you have to do that?
For starters, I think you should be honest with your current girlfriend about what had happened with your ex: that you had realized, way too late, that you were buying love and being financially exploited, and you wanted your future relationships to be more financially equal so that that wouldn't happen again.
It's possible that your girlfriend thinks you make more money than you are letting on, and that's why she's acting this way. It's also possible that she is only pushing nude because it's Christmas, and some people obsess over gift giving during the Holidays.
I don't think the relationship is beyond repair, yet, as it could be a misunderstanding. If you really want a serious relationship with someone long term, eventually, the money conversation has to happen.
I feel like you're a step ahead of many of the people who post here, then.
I will say that yes, if he doesn't want to talk you pretty much have to let it lie, at least for a while. If you get too into trying to talk to him at his job you might get him fired, which, if he was involved in drugs earlier might cause him to spiral downward.
I hope it all goes well. It's likely to be tough, but it's a worthwhile thing to do.
This guy is a grown man with a PhD who just won't get a damn job OR help around the house. The courts are going to hang him out to dry.
Does your boyfriend have a mom or older sister you could at least have get you pads and tylenol when you need if stepmother won't help without getting your dad involved in a way that only makes it harder?? You need someone on your team in a big way and I'm so sorry you don't have that.
Is there a female teacher or coach you get along with you might be able to talk to about how it is at home?
Or an aunt or female family member in yours that you'll be seeing for the holidays? Its worth a shot.
You don’t need his permission, he is your husband not your parent.
Sounds like he is just insecure about your salary and not treating you well.
It’s in the best interests of your child for a) you to be in a healthy situation where you are not sad and being isolated and b) for you to have financial security, which you would have if you worked.
Sounds like you don’t want to be a full time stay at home wife or mother, so why do you think you have to do that?
For starters, I think you should be honest with your current girlfriend about what had happened with your ex: that you had realized, way too late, that you were buying love and being financially exploited, and you wanted your future relationships to be more financially equal so that that wouldn't happen again.
It's possible that your girlfriend thinks you make more money than you are letting on, and that's why she's acting this way. It's also possible that she is only pushing nude because it's Christmas, and some people obsess over gift giving during the Holidays.
I don't think the relationship is beyond repair, yet, as it could be a misunderstanding. If you really want a serious relationship with someone long term, eventually, the money conversation has to happen.
I feel like you're a step ahead of many of the people who post here, then.
I will say that yes, if he doesn't want to talk you pretty much have to let it lie, at least for a while. If you get too into trying to talk to him at his job you might get him fired, which, if he was involved in drugs earlier might cause him to spiral downward.
I hope it all goes well. It's likely to be tough, but it's a worthwhile thing to do.
Yes but he treats me like a princess. I think he would forgive me, not a random guy tho
Referring to your parents money as “our money” is gross.
maybe if you post her hard pics will she get it by herself.
I’m so confused about how what post you’ve read… he slept with someone else after she begged him not to?!
r/deadbedrooms
Wasn't this roughly the storyline to the movie Frozen?