Literally this. I don’t even ask my husband this question bc I know he’s lying when he says my body is perfect but ya know what? This dude loves the hell out of me and always shows me that. So I don’t even care anymore. Me and one of my gfs always joke that we’re butterbodies(everything looks good but her body) lol. Obviously your bf is choosing you. He loves you. Stop comparing yourself to unrealistic expectations. I deleted my fb and ig years ago and it’s done a lot for my self esteem.
No, he doesn't. You are useful for him. Having sex with random people when you are in a committed monogamous (to you at least) relationship shows he disdains you and your health. If I understand your post correctly then he's doing this while you are waiting in the hotel room. It's beyond disgusting
This isn't mental illness – it's being an arsehole.
If you think this is in anyway acceptable then I suggest you need to take some time to understand why you dont' have enough respect for yourself or your health to walk away
I believe you asked him that question with just an innocent curiosity. I do. Could there also have been a part of you that just wanted to know the answer because you NEEDED to HEAR the answer because you’re having very real doubts that he’s a good fit for you?
I felt this post pretty deeply because I was in a similar situation over a decade ago. After reading the other post someone linked earlier, our situations contain very similar details and you need to let this relationship go. Do it safely and swiftly. You have all the information you need to walk away. Please do it.
Tell your bf clearly about your issue, i hope he understands.
Break up time
Rather push him away than have a sneaky borderline cheater
Let her
Literally this. I don’t even ask my husband this question bc I know he’s lying when he says my body is perfect but ya know what? This dude loves the hell out of me and always shows me that. So I don’t even care anymore. Me and one of my gfs always joke that we’re butterbodies(everything looks good but her body) lol. Obviously your bf is choosing you. He loves you. Stop comparing yourself to unrealistic expectations. I deleted my fb and ig years ago and it’s done a lot for my self esteem.
Yikes. At this point, you plan a solo trip or try to travel with a friend. Don’t give up your own dreams.
'he loves me'
No, he doesn't. You are useful for him. Having sex with random people when you are in a committed monogamous (to you at least) relationship shows he disdains you and your health. If I understand your post correctly then he's doing this while you are waiting in the hotel room. It's beyond disgusting
This isn't mental illness – it's being an arsehole.
If you think this is in anyway acceptable then I suggest you need to take some time to understand why you dont' have enough respect for yourself or your health to walk away
Also, psych ward bc I am mentally unstable rn and I don’t want to eat or take any medications.
I believe you asked him that question with just an innocent curiosity. I do. Could there also have been a part of you that just wanted to know the answer because you NEEDED to HEAR the answer because you’re having very real doubts that he’s a good fit for you?
I felt this post pretty deeply because I was in a similar situation over a decade ago. After reading the other post someone linked earlier, our situations contain very similar details and you need to let this relationship go. Do it safely and swiftly. You have all the information you need to walk away. Please do it.
Did he get physical affection from his family? Things like hugs/kisses?
hes making sexual jokes towards u, calling u princess, AND sending u poetry, on top of FOUR HOUR LUNCH DATES? u have to be a troll this is ridiculous