You’re a horrible mother who allows her child to be abused every minute you stay with that man. Is that what you want? For your son to grow up with two abusers? Stop being so selfish.
In general it's not a big deal if we're talking about the start of a relationship. It's okay to take some time just building up the bond between you two before actually showing the world. We all need some reassurance that it's genuine and real.
I don't post anything about my partners, never have. I just have little interest in social media.
But it could be something you like. It could be that it is one of your methods to show appreciation and love. And at the very least a partner should take an interest to try it out; because it is something YOU like.
Either way, I would trust my intuition. If it feels off like there's something wrong… there usually is.
It's very much possible he's not as committed to this as you are. The fact you had to threaten him just to meet his parents… is very concerning… And with an eye to the future making you wonder… what else will he neglect you of that you have to keep begging him for?
Don't you deserve someone who's gladly willing to just do it for you?
I am too tired anyways, in a couple of days I will finally be out of here and get some peace and quiet. But for the last time, a crush is way different than actually developing feelings. Its not even in the same ballpark.
I think you are spiraling. I'm a woman, and I have a nude time with insecurity, too. However, most of us (people, not just women) desire novelty, fantasy, and escape. Typically, celebrity crushes are so outside the scope of possible that you really should just put it out of your mind. Now, if Tom Holland had been her good friend since childhood and they spoke regularly, that would be cause for some concern. As it sits now, he's just an actor.
I have a celebrity wife, she is Elizabeth Banks. My bf probably has a female celebrity he's smitten with, but I don't know off the top of my head. The celebrity crush is all about fantasy, and it gets all the fantasies in one go. Rich, hot partner, extravagant outings, and vacations. It makes people feel good every once in a while. I admit I don't really text any of my friends about it, but I do occasionally daydream of what 'my wife' Elizabeth Banks and I would do on a fancy vacation. But these little daydream fantasies don't even hold a candle to the real-life adventures I have with my bf.
The hard part for me is deciding if you should tell your gf you got snoopy. On one hand, honesty is important. Even when you mess up, it's good, to be honest. However, I don't see how being honest here leads to anything productive. This might be a good time to let sleeping dogs lie and move on and keep working on yourself. Good luck dude, insecurity is very hot, but you gotta have faith.
absolutely, I get that and agree, which is why I never cared when it was a girls night or the other times she went to the club, this one just seemed like a complete avoidance of even wanting me there
and I'ld nip the hope of getting back in a bud. Let it go and move on. If the relationship returns, that's just fine but I wouldn't push it. I get the sense you're still thinking that option is valid and are playing to attain it. Focus on taking care of urself and healing. NO one is strong and ready to end a relationship they weren't willing to end on their own.
Why does she complain you're keeping her from her parents when they're abusive anyway?
You’re a horrible mother who allows her child to be abused every minute you stay with that man. Is that what you want? For your son to grow up with two abusers? Stop being so selfish.
In general it's not a big deal if we're talking about the start of a relationship. It's okay to take some time just building up the bond between you two before actually showing the world. We all need some reassurance that it's genuine and real.
I don't post anything about my partners, never have. I just have little interest in social media.
But it could be something you like. It could be that it is one of your methods to show appreciation and love. And at the very least a partner should take an interest to try it out; because it is something YOU like.
Either way, I would trust my intuition. If it feels off like there's something wrong… there usually is.
It's very much possible he's not as committed to this as you are. The fact you had to threaten him just to meet his parents… is very concerning… And with an eye to the future making you wonder… what else will he neglect you of that you have to keep begging him for?
Don't you deserve someone who's gladly willing to just do it for you?
I am too tired anyways, in a couple of days I will finally be out of here and get some peace and quiet. But for the last time, a crush is way different than actually developing feelings. Its not even in the same ballpark.
Sounds like case closed.
Sure, that's why you're posting such a ragebait post.
I think you are spiraling. I'm a woman, and I have a nude time with insecurity, too. However, most of us (people, not just women) desire novelty, fantasy, and escape. Typically, celebrity crushes are so outside the scope of possible that you really should just put it out of your mind. Now, if Tom Holland had been her good friend since childhood and they spoke regularly, that would be cause for some concern. As it sits now, he's just an actor.
I have a celebrity wife, she is Elizabeth Banks. My bf probably has a female celebrity he's smitten with, but I don't know off the top of my head. The celebrity crush is all about fantasy, and it gets all the fantasies in one go. Rich, hot partner, extravagant outings, and vacations. It makes people feel good every once in a while. I admit I don't really text any of my friends about it, but I do occasionally daydream of what 'my wife' Elizabeth Banks and I would do on a fancy vacation. But these little daydream fantasies don't even hold a candle to the real-life adventures I have with my bf.
The hard part for me is deciding if you should tell your gf you got snoopy. On one hand, honesty is important. Even when you mess up, it's good, to be honest. However, I don't see how being honest here leads to anything productive. This might be a good time to let sleeping dogs lie and move on and keep working on yourself. Good luck dude, insecurity is very hot, but you gotta have faith.
I’m assuming this ended badly then. My condolences.
absolutely, I get that and agree, which is why I never cared when it was a girls night or the other times she went to the club, this one just seemed like a complete avoidance of even wanting me there
and I'ld nip the hope of getting back in a bud. Let it go and move on. If the relationship returns, that's just fine but I wouldn't push it. I get the sense you're still thinking that option is valid and are playing to attain it. Focus on taking care of urself and healing. NO one is strong and ready to end a relationship they weren't willing to end on their own.