I'm sorry you've found yourself in another abusive situation – and this IS abusive. Healthy partnerships don't involve getting kicked out of your home over dishes.
My advice is to go back, pack up your things, and break up with him. His dad is your landlord so I wouldn't suggest staying there any longer tbh. Stay with your mom/sister and look for a new apartment.
Your partner's side to this makes him sound even worse then what you told us. He sounds like an huge asshole. I don't care how open he is if you aren't comfortable with topics being shared then he shouldn't discuss it. The reason for the “lack of sex” is the trauma you have been through I'm guessing? I'm glad that he hasn't told his friends and family that. Also they knew I'm pretty sure their “advice” would be alot different. I know if a friend or family told me they weren't getting enough sex due to their partners trauma of being SA I would be pissed off. I would probably tell them to just pleasure themselves. He sound like so selfish and stupid. Him referring to all relationships need sex is so insulting.
I meant how would he feel if you told people he was bad in bed and made you feel unsafe? Not that you would mind you.
it means you’re a dick. you know exactly what’s going on here. grow the fuck up and be honest and stop wasting this guys time.
You right, that’s why I said we “kind of” have an open relationship.
This ^ I talked to my man and we find ways and now I’m so much happier
You are not nothing. You are a wonderful woman that should have a higher sense of self respect. Fuck the haters and just focus on yourself.
You are dating a loser no one his age wants to be bothered, and he feels he is superior because he is older than you.
What kind of problem does your wife think seeing her will cause? She's got terminal cancer. That's a little petty of her, I think.
I'm sorry you've found yourself in another abusive situation – and this IS abusive. Healthy partnerships don't involve getting kicked out of your home over dishes.
My advice is to go back, pack up your things, and break up with him. His dad is your landlord so I wouldn't suggest staying there any longer tbh. Stay with your mom/sister and look for a new apartment.
Your partner's side to this makes him sound even worse then what you told us. He sounds like an huge asshole. I don't care how open he is if you aren't comfortable with topics being shared then he shouldn't discuss it. The reason for the “lack of sex” is the trauma you have been through I'm guessing? I'm glad that he hasn't told his friends and family that. Also they knew I'm pretty sure their “advice” would be alot different. I know if a friend or family told me they weren't getting enough sex due to their partners trauma of being SA I would be pissed off. I would probably tell them to just pleasure themselves. He sound like so selfish and stupid. Him referring to all relationships need sex is so insulting.
I meant how would he feel if you told people he was bad in bed and made you feel unsafe? Not that you would mind you.