Should DEFINITELY snap a photo of the sunglasses and a photo of the sunglasses in his car. If they're for himself, you can delete the pix. If YOU don't get any D&G sunglasses, and HE doesn't get any D&G sunglasses for Xmas, THEN you have the proof (along with the $350 debit from your bank account).
No coming back from this … wow what the fuck man! You can't unshow it, she can't unsee it. Everytime you watched it, you disrespected both those women. It's done… totally done!
You have to come to terms with that your husband is not kind, considerate, or understanding. If he were, he would change. You would not be in your current predicament.
Your husband is fine with how things are. He is weaponizing his incompetence because if you were not there, he WOULD be doing all of these things for himself. But you are, so he doesn't care to do them. He knows this bothers you and that you're unhappy. He does not care enough about you or your unhappiness to change because he is comfortable with how things are. He is happy. For him, that's what matters.
He doesn't think you will leave him. That's the truth. He thinks you will keep accepting this and not leave him. So, he's just not going to change.
You gotta decide your boundary for enough is enough. This has been an issue for how many years? You've talked to him how many times? He is not changing. You should leave him. You deserve more and better.
Guaranteed, if you leave, he will be BAMBOOZLED! SURPRISED! BAFFLED! He will feel it came out of nowhere. He will then grovel and say he will change like you want. Don't cave, though. It's all lies.
He doesn't want to fix the relationship. Time to move on.
Should DEFINITELY snap a photo of the sunglasses and a photo of the sunglasses in his car. If they're for himself, you can delete the pix. If YOU don't get any D&G sunglasses, and HE doesn't get any D&G sunglasses for Xmas, THEN you have the proof (along with the $350 debit from your bank account).
Get an auger and ditch the partner
Not a STD
seriously, I don't focus on how much my kid eats, as long as he's eating.
My boy runs around all day every day,
he eats like he's in a eating competition.
he's still 50th percentile weight when he's 75% percentile height (Taller than average)
so yeah. let yo babies eat!
Sounds like typical alcoholic behaviour honestly.
See if there are any Al Anon support groups near you, it’s specifically for partners and families of addicts.
Defer your graduation for next year?
Did the texts say anything like “it was nice seeing you the other day” or “let's meet up tomorrow “?
Would he be mad if you exchanged numbers with a guy?
Assuming you're 100% correct, which I can guarantee you're not… How it's perceived is more important than what your intention is.
A big part of maturing socially is understanding how your actions are taken and interpreted.
Yeah OP you could find a nice Asian guy! He’d love that – everyone wins!
If he has bear hands, there's bigger issues here.
So your oldest assaulted your youngest so that the family can’t online together but you’re worried about this?
No coming back from this … wow what the fuck man! You can't unshow it, she can't unsee it. Everytime you watched it, you disrespected both those women. It's done… totally done!
You have to come to terms with that your husband is not kind, considerate, or understanding. If he were, he would change. You would not be in your current predicament.
Your husband is fine with how things are. He is weaponizing his incompetence because if you were not there, he WOULD be doing all of these things for himself. But you are, so he doesn't care to do them. He knows this bothers you and that you're unhappy. He does not care enough about you or your unhappiness to change because he is comfortable with how things are. He is happy. For him, that's what matters.
He doesn't think you will leave him. That's the truth. He thinks you will keep accepting this and not leave him. So, he's just not going to change.
You gotta decide your boundary for enough is enough. This has been an issue for how many years? You've talked to him how many times? He is not changing. You should leave him. You deserve more and better.
Guaranteed, if you leave, he will be BAMBOOZLED! SURPRISED! BAFFLED! He will feel it came out of nowhere. He will then grovel and say he will change like you want. Don't cave, though. It's all lies.
Things will get better once you get out of middle school.
When I see a tiny change it always dies after 2-3 days.
ugh, this is so disappointing. i'm sorry OP. your feelings are super valid.