You being incompatible is the only reassurance you need. But to address your focus, you're certainly right to walk away from a situation where communication is a huge issue. Good luck.
Thank you for the insights, regarding number 4: I believe it could be something to do with my past 6 year relationship (ended 4 years ago) where I was cheated on right under my nose with someone my ex said was only a friend. Before that I trusted blindly and I feel after that I have my guard up in those situations so trying to keep myself reasonable not to be unfair to my new partner.
Why isn’t she paying for crap? Does she have a job? If she does, and you weren’t able to pay a bill like your phone— would she be willing to pay it for you? Relationships are a partnership where both people give 100, not one person give and one take
What I'm curious about is, how much do you earn. How much does he ? And what are the future growth prospects for you both ? It kind of seems to me like he's just concerned with bank at this point
Please do not marry this man. I’m sure it meant a lot to your terminally ill mother, to think you have someone to take care of you when she is gone, but he’s probably not the one, and it’s super unfortunate. You should definitely confront him with this information, or just cut the contact and focus on your mother and yourself. He seems kind of shitty and I hope you can get past him quickly so you can focus on important people who wouldn’t betray you in this way.
The mindset, probably not. But many couples on-line apart in their own spaces though.
You being incompatible is the only reassurance you need. But to address your focus, you're certainly right to walk away from a situation where communication is a huge issue. Good luck.
Thank you for the insights, regarding number 4: I believe it could be something to do with my past 6 year relationship (ended 4 years ago) where I was cheated on right under my nose with someone my ex said was only a friend. Before that I trusted blindly and I feel after that I have my guard up in those situations so trying to keep myself reasonable not to be unfair to my new partner.
Why isn’t she paying for crap? Does she have a job? If she does, and you weren’t able to pay a bill like your phone— would she be willing to pay it for you? Relationships are a partnership where both people give 100, not one person give and one take
You missed the point lol
Why do you think hes joking? And you wont end up an episode of Criminal Minds?
Yes, because most same people know not to wear white to a wedding.
What I'm curious about is, how much do you earn. How much does he ? And what are the future growth prospects for you both ? It kind of seems to me like he's just concerned with bank at this point
Well don't marry him, for one. Not until this is sorted. You want to on-line like this forever?
Please do not marry this man. I’m sure it meant a lot to your terminally ill mother, to think you have someone to take care of you when she is gone, but he’s probably not the one, and it’s super unfortunate. You should definitely confront him with this information, or just cut the contact and focus on your mother and yourself. He seems kind of shitty and I hope you can get past him quickly so you can focus on important people who wouldn’t betray you in this way.