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Model from: us
Languages: en
Birth Date: 1960-11-22
Body Type: bodyTypeCurvy
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorBlue
Subculture: subcultureGlamour
Date: October 10, 2022
Lol trust ? maybe you trust them even in bed together sorry but everyone has different views about life. Hopefully if this woman doesn’t accept to respect me I’ll find someone who shares my views in life. Commitment is very important. And there are 8 billion ppl on earth, eventually I’ll find one. It’s not the end of the world
she literally treated you with the police and even had a safe plan in case you do it anway, I am sorry but I wouldn’t be comfortable with a gf as her just break up…this is a minor issue and she already told you she will call the cops on you for it.
I didn't ask her for nudes a 2nd time, I simply did what I said above.
Sure, you didn't ask her for nudes again, you just proceeded to question her about her favorite sex positions and then sent an unsolicited sexual image or sext. Unless you omitted significant context here, it does not at all sound like she wanted to be as “open” as you. I also do not understand how you managed to make such a big leap from being friends to then asking about trading nudes. If there are missing details that better support your argument that you weren't being creepy, you should really add them to the post.
I’m honestly quite torn on this one because normally I advise people that it’s very normal and natural for their partners to notice the passing attractiveness of others and that you can’t expect your partner to never think of anyone other than you as desirable. But that’s not what you’re asking here – your boyfriend has actively told you that he wasn’t drawn to your looks initially, but that he is drawn to the appearance of other women immediately (even if it’s no more than an unintentional stare, which I think is pretty normal). Being told that kind of information even in the context of a very loving relationship is something that’s difficult to deal with and I don’t think you’re at fault for feeling conflicted here.
As someone who has literally walked into a shopping cart because I was staring at a naked woman I get that you can’t always help it, but he’s set up a very shaky foundation for that kind of occasional accident by telling you what he told you. Part of me is inclined to think that many people feel greater attraction to their partners over time, so it is something to try and get past; part of me wants to tell you that you shouldn’t settle for someone who thinks you’re anything less than the best thing that’s ever happened to them (and he may indeed feel that way about you, in which case I hope he tells you so often). For what it’s worth I’d consider myself fairly average looking, but my husband always tells me how incredibly attractive he finds me and that I’m literally the ideal body type to him. So you don’t have to look like a model to find somebody who feels that way about you.
I guess what bothers me about your situation is that YOU are the one looking to do something to fix this, and not your boyfriend. As far as I’m concerned, he should be the one on here asking for advice. He should be saying hey, I unintentionally made my wonderful girlfriend feel insecure by mentioning that I wasn’t immediately attracted to her physically but sometimes am to other women – how can I possibly reassure her that I love her more than anything and that she’s the only person I desire and want a future with despite my stupid comments? I’m not saying he’s wrong for feeling that way, but what possible purpose did it serve to tell you any of that information? It was a silly and thoughtless thing to say and he should recognise it as his fuck up, and his job to repair. You shouldn’t have to make yourself feel like you don’t need to compare yourself to others – he should be making you feel that way, or at least doing a lot of work towards it.
Our partners can’t totally fix our insecurities but they can certainly do a lot to heal them – is your boyfriend doing that for you? Because if he’s not then I’d definitely consider this settling, and I know that’s not what you want for yourself.
Goddamn people are so stupid…
that makes sense, thank you. I definitely feel disrespected whenever he says my interests are a waste of his time. I guess I just never thought too much into it and I didn’t realize until you said that how rude it actually is for him to only care about his interests and think mine aren’t worthy
Just leave. Send a text a saying I know your cheating. Then block him forever