Being incapable of doing a basic life skill is sometimes seen as lazy, regardless of money. Reason being, you rely on your financial situation to feed yourself and your spouse and if you weren’t in the position you were in you would be useless in the kitchen. Hypotheticals aside, acts of service and meaningful action (although you may not enjoy it) is important in a relationship.
?♀️ it doesn’t really bother me all that much. When I was younger it was annoying but I’m 31 and I’ve been with him since I was 16, so I’ve had a long time to learn to navigate his needs and mine and find a compromise. That’s why I said I’ll tune him out, he knows I do it and it doesn’t upset him. When you share your life with someone there are gonna be personality quirks that you get used to. Different situations you learn to navigate. The OP seems like he makes his partner walk on eggshells though and that’s not fair. She might genuinely have innocent intentions, she also might not realize it stresses him out to hold any kind of conversation while playing on-line chess (I enjoy playing chess with my husband and kids in person and we all hold conversations while we play, so has everyone else I’ve seen play board games in person so it might not be obvious to her) They need to sit down and have a real discussion about it (like he tells her he doesn’t like to be interrupted when playing chess or whatever else and she expresses that she doesn’t like when he snaps at her without telling her the problem first, then come up with solutions to both problems, making sure both parties are heard) not just “oh yeah sorry, let’s drop it” and then let it happen again.
Yes, she will leave. Better break up with her, even if they don't end up together, it is a clear sign she prefers her ex.
Being incapable of doing a basic life skill is sometimes seen as lazy, regardless of money. Reason being, you rely on your financial situation to feed yourself and your spouse and if you weren’t in the position you were in you would be useless in the kitchen. Hypotheticals aside, acts of service and meaningful action (although you may not enjoy it) is important in a relationship.
Don’t be silly. That’s how they get pregananant /s
Yes I’m pretty sure my family will be home later tonight too so it may work out perfectly
?♀️ it doesn’t really bother me all that much. When I was younger it was annoying but I’m 31 and I’ve been with him since I was 16, so I’ve had a long time to learn to navigate his needs and mine and find a compromise. That’s why I said I’ll tune him out, he knows I do it and it doesn’t upset him. When you share your life with someone there are gonna be personality quirks that you get used to. Different situations you learn to navigate. The OP seems like he makes his partner walk on eggshells though and that’s not fair. She might genuinely have innocent intentions, she also might not realize it stresses him out to hold any kind of conversation while playing on-line chess (I enjoy playing chess with my husband and kids in person and we all hold conversations while we play, so has everyone else I’ve seen play board games in person so it might not be obvious to her) They need to sit down and have a real discussion about it (like he tells her he doesn’t like to be interrupted when playing chess or whatever else and she expresses that she doesn’t like when he snaps at her without telling her the problem first, then come up with solutions to both problems, making sure both parties are heard) not just “oh yeah sorry, let’s drop it” and then let it happen again.
Break up. You deserve to be celebrated.
Love is not enough for a relationship.
Just leave if you are so unhappy. He will never give you what you want.
That's what I thought too.
why are you still with her? reading the way you've written it, you've already given up on her. do you dread going home? I would.
you don't like her questions, you don't like her attitude, sex must be damn good.