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Scarlett and Jake Baecon, 29 y.o.
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Date: October 17, 2022
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Sounds like two different conversations happened: you talked about things you would like to do with her in the future (one type of fantasy) and she talked about things she imagines sometimes.
“wanted to” and “fantasised about” are different things my dude.
If you can't handle what people might be playing in their inner brain cinema during their alone time, then don't ask.
As to how you go forward from here? Well you can be honest with her that it made you a bit uncomfortable (without putting the blame on her), and ask her not to bring it up again and work on grounding yourself in REALITY – what is real.
Also – if you were bringing this up as a way to ask if she would be interested in having sex with you in public, then you need to clarify that too.
A Pregnant woman can have whomever she damn well pleases at her appointments or even the birth of her baby.
OP needs to remember that “I don't want to be in a relationship with you” is a full sentence as well. Some people don't like being in relationships with people who either won't express themselves or won't reciprocate.
This is controlling behavior that could lead to abuse. Anyone who wants to isolate you from half the population is not ready to be in an adult relationship, IMO.
He messaged everyone he could online and within a week had arranged to meet someone. I begged him not to go ahead with it as I realised I wasn’t emotionally able for it but he did it anyway.
Today. You end it today. You owe no explanations, she'll already know.
Three years is not a long time to rebuilt self esteem and get over comments basically saying she's not good enough. Especially when you decide that it would be a good idea to tell her yet ANOTHER negative thing about her a year ago.
Maybe with more time, but I wouldn't hold my breath. Like I said, “the standard” tells us we aren't good enough for years already. And our partners are supposed to be there to lift us up. At this stage, she's probably sitting there wondering where the next hit will come.
Just skip the crap in between and break up now. Polly and open can absolutely work but this situation is neither of those.
Ohhhhh let this one go. Let him get the therapy he needs. It sounds like there was never a good relationship to save.