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Date: October 24, 2022
just ignorance, totally fine
Yes. I (23F) felt this way during my first romantic experiences in high school, and was scared I was damaged and could never accept love. A friend had feelings for me and it made me sick to my stomach. I also have anxiety and OCD.
Years of therapy and many romantic encounters later, I’ve learned it all came from very low self esteem (at least for me). It took a while to even realize how much I didn’t like myself. That’s why I couldn’t accept love, it felt wrong that someone could feel that way for me, and it often led to resenting them for it/looking down on them.
As I’ve aged a bit and grown (and left the cruddy closed environment of high school) I’ve gotten to know myself better and built up some confidence. Romance has become easier and I’ve had many enjoyable sexual experiences. I still struggle with commitment issues and it may be a while before I’m ready for a serious romantic relationship (I still need to get to know myself better and spend time being single), it has gotten SO much better. Hope this helps.
Taken advantage of by FOUR different guys in one night? Sorry but I’m calling bullshit.
I agree, personally, with you. The people with more personal things out there, have the most issues – my POV. Post like this are great examples.
I agree. I worked in child care for 12 years, and never got lice myself despite being the staff person that had to check each person’s head for lice or nits when there were outbreaks (because the other staff all got the creeps about it). I’ve seen kids’ heads that were just crawling with them, to the point that you could see the lice from several feet away if you were really looking.
The only people I have known who weren’t able to get rid of lice with 1-2 treatments hadn’t followed the rest of our recommended procedures, like bagging up stuffed animals and pillows, washing bedding and clothing, changing our hair brushes, and treating car seats, furniture, and rugs.
I had to make this decision and thank the stars for my very sweet boyfriend who took care of me mentally and physically.
Why did you marry a child?
What ridiculous fragility.
You're a grown up, do as you please.
The only thing I'd say re the age gap is understand what you each want out of the relationship.
If he's 42 and single, he could either be committed to staying single, or could now be ready to settle down, and either could be fine with you, provided you KNOW the score.
If it's the case that he wants permanency and you don't, you might want to be cautious, because he's getting to an age where he might be possessive and jealous if you aren't ready to settle down.
If he's a confirmed single, understand he's unlikely to change, and you need to not get your hopes up that he will.
If you are both in the same page- enjoy!!
He seems genuine. Just needs someone, like a good therapist, to get it into his head the damage his behavior has caused. It sounds like there were issues where he was considering ending the marriage before cheating, which I suspect is pretty common with people that cheat. I hope they do seek out counseling. Learning how to communicate properly can solve a lot of big problems before they snowball into big selfish stupid mistakes that cause trauma and shame for life. :/
Absolutely right. Op should report this to the police. op can't control how another person handles it but you have to tell her the truth and see what happens.
Crossing my fingers op is telling the truth and not making this up to then show his gf “oh look, I even made a post about it asking for advice”. I swear it was an accident.
He’s a control freak with expectations of you fulfilling every gendered role and I would run away as fast as I could.