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GOAL = CREAM BOOBS! 🙂 PRVT open, as always! #dominant #femdom #findom #switch #goddess #sensual #strip #mistress #ass [2660 tokens remaining]
Date: October 29, 2022
GOAL = CREAM BOOBS! 🙂 PRVT open, as always! #dominant #femdom #findom #switch #goddess #sensual #strip #mistress #ass [2660 tokens remaining]
All of this is the right answer. I’d give an award if I had one. Take it from an old lady who’s seen a lot of shit in her time: you won’t really know him until you’ve spent extended time together in person and you’ve seen how he interacts with other people, how he handles stressful/crisis situations, how he responds to being told no. And you should not let him on-line in your house until that point.
Enjoy the attention from your crush and the creative energy that’s coming from your flirtation but pump your brakes.
Don’t fantasize about building a life with this guy. Work on building a life for yourself and your children.
That definitely should include therapy, both individual and family, for you and the kids. The breakup of a family, even a dysfunctional one, affects children in various ways. Your primary focus needs to be supporting and healing them and yourself. Growing and moving on and redefining your family.
Then. When he moves to your town you can enjoy dating each other, spending weekends together when your kids are with their dad, and just seeing what happens.
Cut your losses. You are not compatible. Don't waste any more time.
Great response and 100% agree. I hate the ridiculous and over the top ettiquete rules of 'high society', it's tedious and utterly boring. Why can't we just allow people to be themselves? Why does it fucking matter what wine glass they've chosen or whether they understand all of the unspoken rules of 'high society'? It makes me sad when I see people reinforcing the absurd narratives that perpetuate the idea of “us” and “them, the common folk, the rabble.”
My disdane and frustration with boring toff's aside, an interesting thought experiment here… if OP's bf decided not to take her out to expensive restaurants anymore and instead decided to embrace the 'simpler' things, would she still be with him? Food for thought.
Yep that's the story I read too.
You would have sex with someone you don’t trust around your child?
Why does her love cost you so much?
Love doesn't have to be like this. The right partner will trust you. You won't have to prove your love repeatedly.
A good therapist can help you set healthy boundaries with how you deserve to be treated in all of your relationships. You deserve a soft life full of love and a partner who contributes meaningfully to that. You are worthy.
Pretty shit. I'm struggling to reconcile the person I thought she was with the person she might be.