Op, please take note of this comment! Please get out and get away from this abusive creep. You deserve so much better than just trading one devil for another. Break the cycle
I thought we were meant for each other and would be together forever. She said she would be equitable but cheated me out of most of the assets. People may be reasonable–until they see the dollar signs. Marriage is so biased against men that you need to protect yourself any way you can. Trust but verify.
LOL. You are a child. How embarrassing to care that your girlfriend DATED/SLEPT with people before you. I feel bad for her because she’s dating someone who literally has a similar past and has no issue with what HE did but can’t get over what she did. You suck.
First, not to be snarky but if you’re going to be polyamorous, learn to spell it. Second, understand that polyamory is not compatible with monogamy. If you want to be poly, go be poly with someone who is compatible. This guy is not.
I'm aware what I did seems very stupid and immature. There are many details that I need to share so you guys get the whole picture. I felt I needed to come asap
Concealed carry is not the only answer. But the rest of them are either not as effective or require a lot of time and training to be effective. Firearms are an incredible equalizer for people who aren't as physically strong or capable, but as with literally anything else, we all have to make decisions based on our comfort levels. I don't know what if any familiarity you have with firearms or concealed carry, (from the post it doesn't sound like much) you might take some familiarization courses and talk to some people and see how you feel then. But you're allowed to not want to carry or own a firearm for any reason.
You’ll get used to it, im 23 and also very short/petite. I get carded at every single 18+ location i visit. Even in the summer when i wear clothing that shows off my tattoos, people still ask to see id. After a while it becomes less embarrassing and you learn to laugh it off, even though at first its an uncomfortable experience. Im a few weeks older than my bf and one time a waitress at the restaurant was even being super rude/weird to him when she saw him giving me kisses/affection. Then when we tried to order drinks she was SUPER uncomfortable and immediately asked for my id (not his) and when she saw my birthdate as 1999 her eyes went wide and she actually turned to him to apologize, saying “she so little! Look so young!”. We just laughed it off and he showed her his id with a 2000 birth year. Don’t overthink it girl, they say when we hit our 40s it becomes a blessing and not a curse lol
Pray he's using them for when he bats out one on his own. The other option is not what you want
Op, please take note of this comment! Please get out and get away from this abusive creep. You deserve so much better than just trading one devil for another. Break the cycle
I thought we were meant for each other and would be together forever. She said she would be equitable but cheated me out of most of the assets. People may be reasonable–until they see the dollar signs. Marriage is so biased against men that you need to protect yourself any way you can. Trust but verify.
This if you message about next week you will have hit pushy territory.
LOL. You are a child. How embarrassing to care that your girlfriend DATED/SLEPT with people before you. I feel bad for her because she’s dating someone who literally has a similar past and has no issue with what HE did but can’t get over what she did. You suck.
First, not to be snarky but if you’re going to be polyamorous, learn to spell it. Second, understand that polyamory is not compatible with monogamy. If you want to be poly, go be poly with someone who is compatible. This guy is not.
I'm aware what I did seems very stupid and immature. There are many details that I need to share so you guys get the whole picture. I felt I needed to come asap
Concealed carry is not the only answer. But the rest of them are either not as effective or require a lot of time and training to be effective. Firearms are an incredible equalizer for people who aren't as physically strong or capable, but as with literally anything else, we all have to make decisions based on our comfort levels. I don't know what if any familiarity you have with firearms or concealed carry, (from the post it doesn't sound like much) you might take some familiarization courses and talk to some people and see how you feel then. But you're allowed to not want to carry or own a firearm for any reason.
You’ll get used to it, im 23 and also very short/petite. I get carded at every single 18+ location i visit. Even in the summer when i wear clothing that shows off my tattoos, people still ask to see id. After a while it becomes less embarrassing and you learn to laugh it off, even though at first its an uncomfortable experience. Im a few weeks older than my bf and one time a waitress at the restaurant was even being super rude/weird to him when she saw him giving me kisses/affection. Then when we tried to order drinks she was SUPER uncomfortable and immediately asked for my id (not his) and when she saw my birthdate as 1999 her eyes went wide and she actually turned to him to apologize, saying “she so little! Look so young!”. We just laughed it off and he showed her his id with a 2000 birth year. Don’t overthink it girl, they say when we hit our 40s it becomes a blessing and not a curse lol