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Date: October 6, 2022
Exactly – all the times my partner and I have accidentally hurt each other in our sleep we have been genuinely apologetic about it
It depends on how important sex is to you. Some people are asexual and sex just isn't important to them, whatsoever. I don't think I would personally stay in a relationship that was sexless, but I know plenty of people would have no issue with it. I would say if she isn't bothered by going two years without sex while she is in a relationship, meanwhile, you *do* take issue with not having it, this might prompt me to hypothesize that our sex drives aren't compatible. Long term, this is only going to cause problems and resentment on both sides. Even if she has sex with you to make you happy, are you really going to enjoy it knowing she is only doing it to please you and not because she actually wants to be having sex?
You saw the red flags from the beginning. You stuck it out for a year hoping love would be enough.
It's not.
You don't love him anymore. He sounds irritating tbh; I don't blame you. Leave him and find someone who can and wants to communicate.
Tell him now if he’s you’re friend
Your dude is an A+ manipulator. He's so good at it that after assaulting you, he has you believing that you're the one in the wrong.
You did nothing wrong. He's the one that not only didn't take no for an answer but continually did so and stopped you from getting away. He then blamed you for his behavior.
Getting him “worked up” does not negate your no. Him starting to cum does not negate your no. It certainly doesn't mean you have to “let him carry on”.
You can say no at any time. You literally told him it wasn't going to happen at the very beginning and at multiple times throughout.
This is not a good guy. And yes he is definitely selfish. This whole thing is about what he wanted, with no concern whatsoever about what you wanted and clearly expressed.
I would nope right out of this before this escalates.
Hey there, thanks for your reply. Things have calmed down a lot now. Very long story short, I ended up telling him everything (*everything*) and he didn't judge me and just strongly encouraged me to get professional help (as you did), so I had my first therapy appointment this week and I'll be seeing a therapist weekly at least for a while. He and I talked about possibly starting couple's therapy because he's never met someone who had these issues that he knows of, and he's very worried he's going to do something that sets me off and has a bunch of other worries, but I think once I settle down a bit everything is going to be okay. We're taking it one day at a time, but things are already looking up just a little bit.
I hear what you were saying about the age gap and the fact that he used to be my supervisor, but I'm personally not worried about that aspect of our relationship because I've done some research on what abusive relationships look like (after being in a few myself I came to my senses a bit and realized I need to protect myself in the future), and I don't honestly believe this is one of them. I also find it difficult to connect with people closer to my age due to things I've experienced in the past, my therapist mentioned this is common among chronic abuse survivors for there to be a gap in “emotional maturity” when compared to people of similar ages which makes forming meaningful relationships around people whose brains haven't completely matured yet (i.e. anyone below age 24 or so according to research). Thank you for your concern though because I was able to bring it up to the therapist and talk about it to soothe that insecurity.
Just wanted to give an update since you replied. Thanks for taking the time to reply, I really appreciate it 🙂
I'm assuming he dumped her and she would still be with him if she had her way?
He is a friend. Let him know that you value him as a friend but not as a romantic partner. Period.
Not at all, i'd like to see you try to explain that.
So who made the plans first you or your friends? Did they decide to go at the same time, after you told them about your plans? Also, I wouldn't be very happy about having to experience Paris with a woman who doesn't even like me. She wants a friend there too. Maybe next time you don't want her friends around you shouldn't make plans to have your friends around…
She didn't say to leave her alone, instead that she wanted time with her friends. Showing up at the same bar could've ended better, if he didn't pretend not to know her.
Who invited the voice of reason? Get a load of this one; all making sense and shit.