You’re right. It makes so down thinking about whether he feels anything for me at all. Like did he ever care? He moved on so quickly and the thought of another man touching me almost a year later makes me sick. My body only remembers and longs for him. It’s wild to think all this was a lie. We were inseparable. I don’t know what I could’ve done differently.
I get that but it doesn’t have to be permanent. We also don’t have many options here. It would be one thing if she could get a place within 30 minutes of me but that isn’t an option. So it’s either we live together or be long distance with few chances to see each other in person. Sure long distance can work but it’s harder and it requires quite a few extra things and expenses.
Glad to see someone was in a similar position. Yeah she made it clear that there isn’t a future because her family will never go for me and she cares about their approval. I’m in such a tough position because I really don’t want to let her go completely and that’s why I think we are settling for what we are doing now because it avoids the pain of losing someone.
How do you think I should go about ending things. What should I say?
That is sexual assault! You need to restrict your relationship with this person to what is needed for parenting purposes. Also make a police report. I doubt they can or would do anything about it but it starts a file on the grub.
A judge isn't going to amend custody because the mother says mean things about OP to the kid.
You’re right. It makes so down thinking about whether he feels anything for me at all. Like did he ever care? He moved on so quickly and the thought of another man touching me almost a year later makes me sick. My body only remembers and longs for him. It’s wild to think all this was a lie. We were inseparable. I don’t know what I could’ve done differently.
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This is what abortions are for. Unless you're a fundamentalist.
I get that but it doesn’t have to be permanent. We also don’t have many options here. It would be one thing if she could get a place within 30 minutes of me but that isn’t an option. So it’s either we live together or be long distance with few chances to see each other in person. Sure long distance can work but it’s harder and it requires quite a few extra things and expenses.
We started out as pretty equal with chores, but over time I’ve taken more and more on as he does them so poorly. Thank you for your insight
Glad to see someone was in a similar position. Yeah she made it clear that there isn’t a future because her family will never go for me and she cares about their approval. I’m in such a tough position because I really don’t want to let her go completely and that’s why I think we are settling for what we are doing now because it avoids the pain of losing someone.
How do you think I should go about ending things. What should I say?
That is sexual assault! You need to restrict your relationship with this person to what is needed for parenting purposes. Also make a police report. I doubt they can or would do anything about it but it starts a file on the grub.
Tell her mother she is no longer welcome in your house. My goodness the cheek of the woman.
Tell your husband like that you cut both of them, he is not a friend and so is she.