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Date: January 12, 2023
No but since she's a woman who's also a shit person, a select few commenters will make up some random mental health/trauma backstory to absolve her of being a shit person
Nope, I'm not living with someone who has creepy behaviors like that
So uhhhhhhh I’m going to try to be helpful. I’m going to suggest you do a minimum amount of talking and just listen to what your son has to say. Don’t react just fully take in what he’s saying, process it, and don’t make excuses. Don’t try to justify your actions because in the end you betrayed him in a very big way and the fact that after only four years he’s willing to go from no contact to at least meeting is quite generous.
I think a question you will need to expect is why his friend of all people and why did you prioritize his friend over him(missing soccer games and his 18th birthday). I would take the next day or so to do some soul searching and figure out the answer to these questions because “well it just happened” and “i was lonely” are not going to cut it. Please keep us updated on how this goes because ooooof
She was lying to you and had an affair. Even if you were ok with poly relationship with her friend in these circumstances it's a recipe for disaster. If you validate her cheating, she will feel free to cheat again.
If you consider getting back with her you should ask your wife to come clean with everything. Explain that since she has cheated and lied to you, you can't really believe any of her words and her fidelity.
Whether you can be poly sime time in the future is one thing, the fact that she needs to ends her relationship with her friend is another. Keep in mind, I mean entire relationship. You can't trust to be platonic friends with her can you?
Maybe after a year of proper fidelity you can come back to polyamory question.
What are you using to define “unhealthy”? It’s like you didn’t consider you might meet someone you really like, and have made rules that ensure you view it as a problem.
Sometimes in a new relationship you really dig the new person and you spend all your time together because it’s great.
“Please don't shout at me, I have PTSD from a violent ex.”
“I WILL SCREAM AT YOU, PUNCH THINGS, AND THREATEN SUICIDE, AND IT'S ALL YOUR FAULT!!! ALSO I CAN'T CONTROL MY BEHAVIOR AND DON'T BELIEVE IN THERAPY, SO I WILL NEVER EVER CHANGE!!!”
This is what you're living in right now. You need to get away. He's just as bad as your previous abuser.
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We have been together for one and half years now. Everything’s been fine between us, until recently I found out she’s been feeling insecure about my past before her (I am now way past that phase). We talked it out and things are back to normal again, but since then I realized how much I want to be with her and had been taking her for granted. Also, can’t ignore the dreadful guilt that came along.
I am starting to get trouble sleeping alone due to overthinking. Hell, I can’t even turn my back to her when we sleep together. I don’t want to bring this up to her for now because it’s just purely my own anxiety-fueled bs.
I am developing some unhealthy habits like staring at her (well, admiring) or asking for more sex or going through her messages every now and then. What can I do to stop my unhealthy behavior? I don’t want to talk to my gf about it because she would get sad if she knows I am feeling insecure because of her then-insecurity, and I’d gonna get sadder (lol screw those dreadful loops).
Your wedding day is supposed to be one of the happiest days of your life. Don’t jeopardize that.