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People are saying to talk to him with an open mind or whatever–is it even worth it to go over this with him more than you already have?
I promise you there are more sensitive people out there where you wouldn't even have to ask these questions or have these dilemmas. My god, if he has a normal amount of empathy he should feel terrible about putting you in this spot where you have to be contemplating this stuff in the first place, regardless of whether he knew he was hurting you or not. And if you've talked to him about this happening with your exes before it sounds like he did know.
Reddit is full of dudes who will defend their boners and their right to put them anywhere they feel like barring an official apostillised notice that their partner Does Not Consent. And I promise you…not all men are like that! Some people are actually interested in reading the room and above all connecting with their partners.
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Maybe hostile is the wrong word, idk maybe a better way to say it is it doesn't seem to me that he thinks of us as being on the same team, there isn't any vulnerable language here, no attempt to keep me from just putting up defenses
He totally raped you. If he tries that shit again, give him a really nude throat punch when he isn't expecting it!
It starts small, OP.
He's seeing how far he can push the abuse. It's illegal for a reason and the circumstances around it don't change anything. Even if you going out sick were illegal, he would still not be in his right to handcuff you.
You need to distance yourself from him and go no-contact in case he turns out to be manipulative. Next go directly to a therapist specializing with domesting abuse, because that's the only reliable person who can tell you what to do objectively. Not your family, not his family, not him. You need to listen to a professional before making a further decision. But staying with him or expecting a sorry etc will just give him information that he can do this again, next time it will go farther. Don't do this to yourself.
It's a classic boiling from metaphor. First it's this, he or you can explain it with “he did it for my wellbeing” but listen to your body. It tells you it's wrong because you feel uneasy about it. Dont wait for the temperature to raise any more. Go no contact.
Is this a shitpost? A parody of another post maybe?
As someone who has smoked both a few factors to keep in mind;
The affects of cigarettes doesn't last for hours. They don't influence your thinking. Your memory. Or change your brain chemistry besides the addiction to nicotine, which of cause ends up giving you withdrawal effects.
They do however lead to alot of other health related issues.
The effect of weed however, does last for hours. It does influence your thinking and your memory. And it does change your brain chemistry besides the addiction, it also influence the way your brain develops, and incase you don't know, you brain still has 4-7 years of development to do.
However, as someone who been and is addicted to both, weed is alot more easy to let go than cigarettes in terms of the addiction.
I think you should support her in quitting the cigarettes, if she only just started smoking it should doable for her.
But, don't smoke weed, and don't smoke cigarettes. It's a poor life choice, that I do not recommend from experience.
So he wants his cake and to eat it too. And you say he slept with her? While you guys were dating?
And she kept going back. Boundaries, anyone??
You’re a member of the military, so that tells me you know how to handle yourself in most situations better than most people your age. Don’t let this jackass disrespect you like that. Find someone that treats you like an equal, not like property. Dump this dude, go to Hawaii, you do the PICKING UP! ?
My ex and I had a very contentious divorce and could barely be civil to each other for a few years after the split (which happened when the kids were 8 and 6). After three or four years of wrangling over holidays, birthdays, and other special occasions we finally reached a point where we could behave like rational adults and we discussed getting together on those occasions for the sake of the kids. We were upfront with them about it and never led them to believe we were getting back together. And it went really, really well for a few years but then my ex and I started getting on each other’s nerves and would bicker in front of the family, ruining things for everyone. So the kids talked it over and let us know they’d had enough and could we please go back to separate holidays, etc. A few years of that and my ex and I found our way to being kind to each other again and honestly, I now think of that him as a friend. But we still do separate family get togethers, essentially acknowledging that he and I are no longer family to each other. Both my kids now have families of their own and would prefer this “separate but equal” status, unless it’s a one-time thing (like a graduation or a dance recital or something similar) but my ex and I make an effort not to revert to our old argumentative ways.
Just don’t lie to your kids about what you’re doing. But be aware, many other family members will not be onboard. My ex and I get along but no one in his family will speak to me and that’s never going to change. Probably best if you just avoid telling them about what you’re doing. Remember, it’s your life and your kids’ welfare.
4 months or so
Yes OP leave him. He is a mooch and doesn't feel responsible at all. He is lazy and actually disrespectful to you and what you are doing. Dump his butt