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Sierra, y.o.
Location: Canada
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Date: January 9, 2023
Do you still have feelings for your ex?
Are you constantly talking about your ex?
Are you sure you’re over her?
We’re you left without closure in your last relationship?
Nothing will make a new girl more insecure than you CONSTANTLY bringing up your ex girlfriend man.
She isn’t your ex girlfriend, but she will be if you keep comparing her.
You need to make peace with your past before you can move on. If you aren’t ready to let it go and move forward, you aren’t ready to be dating.
It’s not fair to compare people like that.
That is not acceptable at all – he might not have cheated on you (yet) but he's confirmed that he would, and that he regrets not doing so when he had the opportunity.
Walk away and finds someone who treats you properly, with respect and love.
Hmmm maybe he is just awkward and he didn’t know how to handle a sleep over and then leaving in the morning? If he doesn’t have game he may just be clueless as to what is more appropriate. ??♀️ it’s very hot to say!
Fascinating assumption. Though not necessarily a fact.
You should call the police and report it. I’m sure it’s illegal in most parts of the world. Good luck if you’re somewhere that considers this appropriate behavior towards women.
I'm also from a European country (the UK). While I've never lived on the mainland myself, I was basing this on the comments of various friends (who from memory, have lived in Germany, Spain, France, Portugal, Luxembourg, Sweden and Greece).
But to be fair, that's not to say that they as a group outright stated this was the case in all of those countries, just that was the impression I picked up.
So it sounds like I was overgeneralising, for which I apologise!
He might not have another family, but he could have another girlfriend. Or multiple.
What kind of relationships are these nowadays? What happened to just you know regular voice calling? Adults do that! “Hey, just wondering how you have been?”
and then there this…
doesn’t like his partner to always question him about his whereabouts and thus I keep giving him his space
Yeah, grown mature adults in a committed relationship don’t say or do this. If that’s not a red flag then I don’t know what is. Leave him girl, he has you where he wants you and that is no way to on-line.
There’s a lot I’m leaving out.
The main thing you are leaving out is why you are staying and putting up this obvious domestic violence against yourself.
Sorry OP but she appears to be an incredibly toxic person and why you are staying in this situation is beyond me. If you were female everyone would be yelling at you to get out of there as fast as you can.
Domestic violence – both physical, emotional and mental – is occuring to you and as a victim, you are going to find that you are stuck wanting to help her. So please understand that you can't. You will only be hurting yourself by staying in this situation.
Can you please check out r/abusiverelationships and ask them to help you work out a strategy for leaving this situation.
I know you love her, I know you want what is best for you but this situation is such that you can and must thing of exiting it asap.
I agree that does sound manipulative. It seems like it would be best for you to leave this relationship.
That's even weirder unless you online in a nameless, numberless castle that's up a nameless lane in the middle of the countryside on a road that has no name and a county that has no name where there's no postcode. Then you should be able to say to someone where you live!. It's the kind of thing we teach toddlers. It's the kind of thing you have to put on applications for jobs, credit cards, you name it. Honestly something is very wrong here.
I think him even staying w you at this point, if you continue w this “boundary” is a huge red flag. No he doesn't respect or take you seriously and to stay in a relationship w someone as controlling and unaware about actual boundaries as you makes me think he's dumb.
Best you can do is explain your side to her if she’s willing to listen. If not, let it go…
You were upfront with Sammie. Hindsight is 20/20.
Moving forward, don’t choose anyone remotely connected to the friend group! That’s like sh!thing where you eat…
Good luck!