If he paid all the bills for a long period of time and you had unlimited access to the money he earned it is not unreasonable for him to expect unlimited access to yours. The family income should be pooled to pay bills, save for retirement, emergencies, holidays.
You should have a conversation about finances and goals like adults would. I would have been grateful if my wife got a job and contributed to finances. He seems to be angry. Figuring out why might be a good place to start.
My only question is, “how long ago”. If she did it when she was in college (18 to 25), you're fine. If she only stopped doing it recently, it's a red flag.
People change, situations change. Ask her why she was a prostitute, and what made her quit (if it's not obvious).
Sex work is work. Most women don't enjoy doing it, and don't get much pleasure from it. Sex workers work just to survive.
Also I met a nicer older lady for mind blowing sex a couple times last year. I ended up tweaking her dating profile so she'd get better interaction. She met a guy who had promise but performance issues their first time and I talked her into giving him a second chance and they turned into some wild poly couple and he distanced from his live in gf at the time…
I understand yes , I will definitely correct myself then. Thank you
it improves his finger muscles IYKWIM
If he paid all the bills for a long period of time and you had unlimited access to the money he earned it is not unreasonable for him to expect unlimited access to yours. The family income should be pooled to pay bills, save for retirement, emergencies, holidays.
You should have a conversation about finances and goals like adults would. I would have been grateful if my wife got a job and contributed to finances. He seems to be angry. Figuring out why might be a good place to start.
My only question is, “how long ago”. If she did it when she was in college (18 to 25), you're fine. If she only stopped doing it recently, it's a red flag.
People change, situations change. Ask her why she was a prostitute, and what made her quit (if it's not obvious).
Sex work is work. Most women don't enjoy doing it, and don't get much pleasure from it. Sex workers work just to survive.
You did not mention what happened for your spouse's 40th? It's not childish to want to mark milestones.
The dreams have been happening for the last 3 years, long before getting pregnant and back when things were great with my bf
Go.with.your.gut
Remove yourself and your child from his orbit if possible.
I've read one or two posts like this.
Also I met a nicer older lady for mind blowing sex a couple times last year. I ended up tweaking her dating profile so she'd get better interaction. She met a guy who had promise but performance issues their first time and I talked her into giving him a second chance and they turned into some wild poly couple and he distanced from his live in gf at the time…
It was like a soap opera lol!